I am wondering after hearing so many stories of how skids abuse you or your kids, have any of you considered installing cameras or getting little soy recorders to prove to your DHs what happens when they're not around? I had a few issues w/truant and just told DH that I would not play she said/she said w/him...so truant would never be alone w/me again...but if that had not been possible I was ready to get spy gear to prove it!