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Submitted by Helpless0987 on Sun, 01/29/2012 - 6:27pm

We have gained full custody of ss10 ( the terror) and ss16 as of today. Crazy BM is in JAIL! Heading to prison for atleast 2 years - she's a complete nut and basically is going on assault felony charges to her boyfriend.

So far ss10 has take. To pissing into bottles and hiding them, pissing all over the toilet and pissing his bed... DH and I fight constantly over him - he won't make him do ANYTHING. I'm loesing it! All DH and I are doing is fighting! Ss10 has one speed HYPER. I'm barley getting any sleep at night cause he's so Fucking loud- my work performance has been dropping from the stress of taking care of this kid and my lack of sleep.

I can't fake being happy about this. I'm not mad at the kids, I'm MAD at DH and his lack of discipline in the kids and friend parenting style. In my heart I don't feel like our relationship is strong enough to survive this.

His parenting style effects my life- not just his. I don't get any sleep cause he refuses to make them mind, I get stuck cleaning up piss stains and garbage cause he won't make them pick up and I cannot allow my home to be garbage infested bc he doesn't want to make them mind. FMFL

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baseballgirly's picture

Submitted by baseballgirly on Sun, 01/29/2012 - 6:37pm

Your blog could have been written by ME!! Although, if my SO EVER gets full time custody of his kids, I'm moving out. Already decided and no more to discuss there between us!

I wish you the best of luck!! Sad

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Submitted by FiestyRed on Sun, 01/29/2012 - 6:41pm

Sounds like that poor kid needs therapy. I can't imagine how he is feeling. His mother went to JAIL. Could you all possibly get some group/family therapy?

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Submitted by Vichychoisse on Sun, 01/29/2012 - 7:15pm

If DH is unwilling or unable to discipline or take control of that situation, can you AT LEAST make him clean up all the piss everywhere?? Why are you doing it?

Best of luck hon - not sure how I would cope with this at all.

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Submitted by Helpless0987 on Sun, 01/29/2012 - 7:27pm

Lol I can't just have piss hanging around- I'm to much of a germ-phob so we aren't mixing well. Ss16 not even a major prob for me it's ss10- and he's been in therapy for years. What he needs is a good ADHD diagnosis ( no one want to believe it ) some consistency and rules - or he will never feel safe- and a dose of real disapline. Without those things- this little boy is never going to be straight. And that's what's going to break our relationship.

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Submitted by misscinna on Sun, 01/29/2012 - 9:10pm

That is hilarious. Pisskeeper instead of a housekeeper

Maybe your ss does it on purpose. You know how dogs get enjoyment out of watching you clean up their filth? maybe your ss is the same way. He enjoys watching you clean it up - knowing it belittles and angers you. My little bro went thru this phase when he was 10. I gave him two warnings then unbolted the piss stain covered toilet seat and put it on his pillow. Never happened again.