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Helena.Handbasket's picture

Another post got me thinking about the things I've thrown away because Sd doesn't clean up after herself.

1. her special dishes. She has a glass, plate and bowl that we bought that are "hers". She left them in her room last time she was here and dad cleaned her room at put them on the counter. I left it for him to wash but after a few days I figured that wasn't going to happen. Trashed.

2. Lip gloss left laying around. Trashed.

3. socks or clothing that ends up in our wash. It aggravates me more when I see that I washed it and didn't notice it beforehand. Trashed.

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Helena.Handbasket's picture

HAHA OOPS!!! Well after her butthole itch announcement last week.. maybe it wasn't a typo!

Elizabeth's picture

Don't throw it away! Donate it. I bet I've clothed several large families with all the stuff of SD's I've given to goodwill. I've never seen one person with so many clothes, and she literally brought more than 1000 worth of stuff to DH one day and told him she didn't want it. I gladly gave it to people who could use it and continued doing that as I cleaned out her room. It felt great!

3familiesIn1's picture

Nothing, after 48 hours, I pile it on DH's office desk. I throw away nothing - I just put it where he is forced to do something with it. He is always complaining his desk is piled up - I said, well I didn't know what you wanted me to do with it so I put it there until you can decide.

invidia's picture

Crappy toys from Happy Meals that my DH buys for the kids. Pieces of these things get everywhere!

Nerf foam bullets - if you shoot these things all over my house and don't pick them up into the trash they go!

Helena.Handbasket's picture

oo i forgot about those. Thrown those nerf bullets away.

I've also found trash in my car from candy or an empty soda bottle. Guess where those go? No, not the trash }:)

invidia's picture

I've also found trash in my car from candy or an empty soda bottle. Guess where those go? No, not the trash }:)

Love This Blum 3

DaizyDuke's picture

so I'm a royal bitch and will probably get flamed, but don't care. So two years ago when BM moved in with her (then) BF, she moved outside of the school district where SS was going to school. So she lied and used our address. Well since then, she has moved back to the district and we bought a house outside of the district. Well apparently she has never bothered to change the mailing address to hers so whenever anything comes from the school and I see it, it goes in the trash.... oops sorry, BM2 doesn't live here.. no clue who that is.

We only see SS once a month max anyway, and DH bitches about SS school failures but never does anything about it, so why bother? you think the dumb bitch would get the point, when she continually is not getting shit from the school.. but apparently not, since we have been in our new house for 7 months now. Eventually the forwarding will expire and I won't have to be a bitch anymore (well at least about that.. sure I can find something new to take on)

Helena.Handbasket's picture

Thats not flame worthy at all. Actually, you should do a return to sender so they will ask her where she really lives

DaizyDuke's picture

trust me, I thought about that, but if they TELL her that her mail is being returned by us, she'll be all up in DHs rump about it and I try to not give them reasons to "chat"

realitycheckmom's picture

Wait a minute, when the mail quits being forwarded to you they will put a sticker on it with your new address and a note telling the sender the forwarding order is expiring and to make a note of the new address. When your new address is recorded as out of district the school will be all over SS and BM about where he lives.

DaizyDuke's picture

Trust me I know this... i work for a neighboring school district and actually handle out of district kids. Cant wait til they find out (not from me of course ) and charge her tuition. Then she'll finally change her address. It just irks me that DH and I bought a new home and I have to get mail out of MY mailbox with skanks name on it...meh

hismineandours's picture

Oh, wow, let me think. Clothes of all variety. CDs. Video games. Word search books. Candy. Toys. Blankets. Really- anything. I try and be patient, but after I see something sit for weeks on end I chuck it.

dont know what to do's picture

Clothes, nail polish, crafts, toys, cd's. I will not wash SD's clothes, BM won't send her clothes either to wear while she is with us, so she has some clothes that she has gotten for bdays and xmas from grandmas she will wear those at our house but I refuse to wash, DH will wash when they finally start stinking up her room. 3 weeks went by and Dh said did you know there is dirtly clothes in sd's hamper and I so "oh"..lol still haven't washed them.

amyburemt's picture

Thong underwear her bm bought her at age 14 after she made a false rape claim at 15 and turned out she had slept with 5 men. They happened to be in the dryer. I figured bm would actually have to spend some more money on her kid to replace them.