well bm JUST called my dh and was crying saying that sd wants to see him and 'that it didnt work out' between her and her man, which we were kinda figuring since sd a few weekends ago mentioned something about bm and her moving somewhere, but then her bf was with them last pickup, so dh wasnt sure. bm and her sister and sd are on the way to dh's apt (we are living a part right now while i finish school) not sure what the hell is going to happen now that she is single. a few weekends ago, bm called him and talked to dh for like an hour about the past and why they couldnt be together and how she was better than me (haha thats what she thinks then why is dh with me??) and how unhappy she was. Dh let her vent about her bf. but anytime she made an shots at me, he told her straight. (not that she will ever listen anyway)

So he's going to call me after they leave, which is kind of convenient, because im suppose to go visit him for a few days after work tonight. I think the only reason she is talking to him so much (before, when we lived further away, she wouldnt tell him ANYTHING about sd, where her school was or anything) is because im not with him right now, i wonder what its going to be like now that she is single (last year, before she got a bf and we moved where i am at now, she was constantly blowing up his phone saying she wanted him back it was awful and i was sooo pissed. dh (bf at the time) didnt do such a good job at getting her to stop. He ignored her often, but when bm would drop off sd, she would always try to talk to him. He knows how i feel about it and i think he will do a better job if it comes to that again. he better or I will take some serious action, ive read enough blogs on here about SMs getting trampled on by dh and bm, so i got some good ammo to shoot at him.
guess we shall see what has happened when i go visit him tonight.