So if you've followed my story, I am disengaged for so many reasons. I can't seem to do or say anything right in the presence of the skids. DH always watches to critique me after I am around them. It is really horrible. Anyway, he picks them both up (ages 16 and 19) weekly and takes them to dinner. I may be around them once a month or every other month. As far as my Facebook, when we first got together, DH asked me to block BM and befriend the kids because BM would look at our business and if we went on a trip or did anything fun, she would start demanding more money. So, my FB is really for me and MY family. I post pics of my kids from time to time. They don't live in the same state as us. This is my way of showing them I'm proud when they do something or miss them. I don't have much of the skids on my FB because I'm not around them much. When SD19 graduated high school, DH was taking selfies with her and SD16 but guess who wasn't in the pics...anyway...DH made a snide comment to me yesterday. He said if anyone looked at your FB, they would only think you had 2 kids instead of 4. Well, the skids don't look at me as anything but the woman who took their dad. Is this bad? Should I have to post them all over my social media if I barely see them or I feel like a fly by night stranger when I'm around them? SD19 is always coming between DH and I. She is the apple of his eye. She can play dad really good. Our kids have never blended. Mine actually quit having a relationship with me for a little while when DH and I got together. Now we are back on track and talk every day. The last thing I want to do is be flashing the skids all over social media just to appease DH and then upset my kids. It would be one thing if that relationship with the skids were there, but it would purely be to make DH happy and it's fake. Like I said, I can't do anythig right when it comes to the skids. We were just riding down the road and I made a comment about someone we had just met friending me and it turned into well they will think my kids don't exist because your kids are plastered all over your FB and mine aren't. Is this so wrong?