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Not sure what to expect when I get home...but I'm having a hard time

hangingbyathread6's picture

I don't know what may have occurred today in my home while I was at work and DH sleeping. How many times did MIL call him, or my SSs. After her performance yesterday in FRONT of the boys, I would prefer her having nothing to do with them on our time. She wants to see them, talk to them, etc she can do it when they are with their BM since MIL and BM are such a tight knit team.

As I sit here at work, seeing my DH's sad and emotionally drained face last night before he left for work, I can't stop from getting more and more angry with MIL. How dare she turn on her son!!?? What kind of mother does that? What kind of mother chooses to aid and abet another woman whose sole purpose in life is to try to ruin MIL's son and wreck his life, keep him from being happy. How dare she say the things she said to DH in front of the boys!? How psychotic can she get?

I want to go over there on my way home and give that woman a piece of my mind. I won't, but I'd like to. I'd like to go over there and tell her she is no better than the bat shit crazy BM who uses her sons as pawns. I'd tell her she doesn't deserve my DH in her life for the way she treats him. I'd tell her to leave my DH and my family alone. Do not call. Do not stop over. Do not ask for any type of assistance. When you need something, call BM, I'm sure she'll run right up to help (for a price of course). I'd like to tell her that I find her pathetic. That I hope she is proud to run in the same circle of mother of the year's as BM. They both aren't fooling anyone. Everyone knows they are liars and manipulators. I'd like to tell her she best never crush my DH's spirit again.

I hate the way she is to my DH. I hate her vindictiveness, her manipulativeness, her evilness...

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evilstepmotherJ's picture

My heart goes out to you, it is so hard to see our DH's in pain. My husband's mother is a total bitch to him and you can see it in his eyes just like you mentioned, breaks my heart. I felt like you did, I wanted to tell her off but thankfully I didn't. Sadly, i know she wishes they were closer but the way she is going about it is pushing her only son further and further away. He never calls her now because he doesn't want to hear her bitch, he never visits because she has made it so awkward.