B* and imitation is the sincerest form of flattery...or just annoying
Too say that I'm a little odd is like saying the grand canyon is just a pothole. I'm 4 foot 11 inches on a good day...and I am unqiue. I have tattoos...on my forearms, my upper arms, my back and some elsewhere that hasn't seen the light of day in ages..I have piercings...many on my ears and my nose. I also am inclined to dye my hair whatever color of the rainbow that trips my fancy. Yep, I'm every kids nightmare for a mom. :) Right now...my hair is rose gold. I haven't seen my real hair color since about 1984.
DH loves my quirks...although he loves some more than others. DH is also rather quirky so it works.
Beaver on the other hand..is nothing like me. She is as vanilla as they come...and as about as opposite from DH as you could get.
DH likes metal and alternative/punk music, Beaver likes country music and pop.
DH likes tattoos and had two when he met Beaver. Beaver hated tattoos..and thought they were trashy. DH wasn't allowed to get anymore when they were married. He now has a full sleeve and working on the other, as well as on his back and legs.
DH likes to travel Beaver only goes to one place for vacation.
Ya get the picture.
Enter me from stage left...and I like the same things as DH. Travel, tattoos....same in music, etc
All of of sudden, Beaver is telling the skids she wants to travel.
She now likes tattoos...and is going to get one. (this did not come to pass)
Beaver suddenly would be listening to the heavy metal station on the radio...(this was from the skids)
And...then the imitation began...
She cut her hair like mine every single time. If I dyed my hair black, she would, same with red, or brown or blonde. I have a nose piercing (which I have had for 30 years)...suddenly Beaver got a nose piercing. She tried dressing like me...that was really funny. Bought the same glasses, etc. If I got a certain hat...Beaver would show up to with the same one. You get the picture.
IT WAS ANNOYING AS F*ck as my style is my style....at one point my hairdresser was like...well lets see how crazy we can get. Beaver finally gave up the chase when I dyed my hair bright magenta..(this was before fashion colors were cool). Unsurprisingly Beaver did not copy the magenta but did do a less intense red color. She also had to give up when I went back to rocking my natural curly hair...her's is straight and stringy. She did ask SD what kind of perm I got.... LOL...SD had to to tell her ..no perm its natural. bahahwhwhwhahhahaa...
I thought she had stopped copying me but I saw one of SD's insta pictures with the beaver the other day and she now has the same red glasses I have. Just ugh...really. I just got green ones the other day..wonder how long before she copies those.
Give it a rest already Beaver...find someone else to mirror you boarderline personality wako.