Just copied my own response to a blog entitled "why do your skids exist" thought id blog it because it is a bug bear of mine....
Ugh this is a topic which regularly does the rounds in my head, and I never understand it - I just make myself wound up and angry and it makes my stomach do loops with that horrible *I think im going to be sick* feeling.
SO apparently never liked BM. He realised the day they moved in together that she was a nut job and totally changed once she had gotten her claws into him. SO is from Scotland and had no family or close friends down here, he had not been here long before he met the psycho and I think he saw her as some kind of security for him, he was early 20's at the time and she is 12yrs older!
But none the less, SD8 was planned. He says when she told him she was pregnant his heart sank and he cursed himself for being so stupid. Well sorry, but he says they had been trying for a few months before she fell pregnant - HE DELIBERATELY HAD UNPROTECTED SEX WITH A NUT CASE WHO HE HATED WITH A VIEW TO ALLOW IT TO BREED?????!!!!!! WTF??????? or just the fact that he had sex with it AT ALL I cant compute. :sick:
She then of course told him that he had to marry her. He was brought up catholic and thought it was the right thing to do. - I would say that getting her sterilised would have been more favourable but no, they then went on to have another baby a couple of years later. SS5. Troubled little soul that he is. Its tragic really.
Makes me so so angry!! I just want to scream at him and punch him for his mistakes! I am now having to deal with his wrong doings and his two children are suffering for it too with living with a woman who is emotionally unstable and spiteful and all that goes with it. How selfish of him not to think this through!! How can you plan to allow somebody like that to breed when YOU dont even like them and you knew your relationship was doomed to fail!!?? Did he never stop to think that if she is a psycho, plus her father is also a psycho what will her spawn turn out like???!!!!
ARGH! Wish I hadnt started thinking about this now! Grrrrr :sick: !