I love this site. And, some of the entries here really make me think about our situation. I've disengaged from the adult skids, and life has been good since that time. However, I really do wonder what it is about SD24 that makes my blood boil. We've never had a good relationship, and I've truly tried (and tried and tried) to be the better person....but....there is just something about her I don't trust. The first time I met her, I heard all about her sex life (wonderful.....). During the 2nd visit, I just happened to be swamped at work and had brought home a ton of paperwork to do over the weekend. I was WORKING (a word foreign to her!), and when her dad comes home she runs out to tell him I'm ignoring her and don't like her. WTF??????? Two weeks later, she asked me to buy her a 4-wheeler. Again, WTF????? Next visit, she announces her pregnancy, like it's the second coming of Jesus Christ himself. To make matters worse, DH's family falls downs and dies, kills the fatted calf, and praises her for everything she does. It simply boggles my mind. Not once has anyone suggested finishing high school or getting a job---good God, no! 2nd pregnancy was announced on facebook MONTHS before she told her father. It just kept on and on and on. If she's not the center of the universe, there will be no universe, you know? After 5 years of this bull crap, you'd think it would get better, but it really hasn't (thus, the disengagement).

Today is DH's birthday. She called him around dinner time, I could hear her whiny little voice across the room. And, I couldn't help but wonder why I dislike her so.....and DH is of no help because he just doesn't see it. Sigh.....