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WTF, BM??

GhostWhoCooksDinner's picture

She's a friggin' idiot. She really and truly is.

She gave DH the paperwork (left it in our storm door) to have SSociopath transferred to the school in her district. The DAY BEFORE HE WAS SUPPOSED TO START AT THAT SCHOOL. She had already pulled him out of his old school. So we're assuming he just isn't going to school this week. Nice. But there's nothing we can do about it. As usual, Idiot waits until the last possible second to get anything done. She requested that he fill out his portion of the paperwork and drop it off to her the next day. Sorry, we were out of state till today. That's what happens when you wait till the last minute.

Also, she TOLD DH that he would have to provide SSociopath's original birth certificate and SS card. This is hilarious because she has requested the same thing twice in recent years, once when she was registering him for some school thing and again when she needed it for health insurance purposes. DH NEVER had these documents. SHE insisted on keeping all important papers concerning HER kids. HELLO, DUMBASS?? Did you forget about this after the LAST TWO TIMES you asked? Did you not end up finding the documents or requesting them from the appropriate agencies last time? If so, YOU should have them. If not, you should know that DH DOESN'T.

And here's the BESTEST part. Oh, this is rich! On the contact information, the part where it says, "Where should we send your child if school is closed early and we are are unable to reach you?" SHE PUT DH'S AND MY HOME!!!

REALLY, BM?? REALLY?? You and SSociopath claimed that he "fears for his health and safety" at our home. There is an OPEN CPS INVESTIGATION on us because we've supposedly horribly abused this kid, and you're willing to SEND HIM TO US?? The people who starved him, locked him in his bedroom, locked him outside ion the cold, and made him stay up all night writing sentences as punishment? Guess you're not too afraid for his health and safety!

Yes, our CPS caseworker will be notified of this. So much for him being afraid of us and fearful for his life.

This gave us such a chuckle. What an idiot.

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GhostWhoCooksDinner's picture

Oh, we don't want to stop it. We agree completely with the school change. She does this because she has no forethought and plans ahead for nothing. She thinks things should be completed instantly at her bidding. Nope! But she'll never learn. Meh. Who cares.

GhostWhoCooksDinner's picture

He did! He whited it out. If we're truly so horrible that she had to open a CPS investigation on us, then the kid doesn't need to be coming here. I'm sure the CPS worker will find this latest development...interesting. He's no longer welcome here anyway after the outrageous accusations he made.

GhostWhoCooksDinner's picture

Amen! Guess they both "forgot" how abusive and cruel we are. If she has no one else to send him to, tough shit. It's not our fault her family wants nothing to do with her and she can't keep friends. These assholes got exactly what they wanted: us out of the picture. She doesn't get to have her way when it's convenient for her. We're either horrible child abusers who the kid should never be around, or we're not. They don't get to have it both ways.

GhostWhoCooksDinner's picture

Sure did! I wonder if the CPS worker will bother to confront her with it? I doubt it, but the look on her face would be priceless.

GhostWhoCooksDinner's picture

We've heard nothing. Not a word. This investigation has been going on for three months and one week now. I'm guessing this is good, as our case obviously isn't a priority.

I doubt the case worker will even be interested in seeing this latest, but whatever. We have a copy in case she's interested.

GhostWhoCooksDinner's picture

Ugh. I keep waiting for the day when I get home from work and SSociopath is sitting on the steps acting like nothing happened. "Oh, I decided I wanted to come back and stay with you guys sometimes." (Cue angelic fake grin and slow blink.)

NOPE!!

If this were to happen, he'd be told to leave the property and use his cell phone to call Mommy to come and get him. After the things he said about us, he's not welcome here. Can't wait till this investigation is closed so I can share the details of the accusations. They're outrageous!

Delilah's picture

I would send a copy of that paperwork registered mail to the cps department asap. Yeah, they continue to amaze with their utter lack of self awareness and emotional intelligence...is this something that some of these bms learn to ace in? Emotional terrorism at its best. Both my sil and bm are masters in acting like rabid animals and 2 secs later expecting everyone to overlook what they said/did to them and for everyone to fall into line with their demands, then they turn again when you dare to react to their insanity. Emotional intelligence and empathy of a turd.