Here's a new twist!! MIL treats skids/grandkids better than bio??
My DH's family consists of his mother, 2 bio siblings, 3 step sibs, and a step dad. So my MIL, who I actually enjoy spending time with, has bailed on every important thing in our lives-BUT the wedding. It has all been brought to my attention because of my DH's step sis. The 1 girl in all boys (I have sisters so I do not understand the pedestal). We were pregnant at the same time having the only granddaughters weeks apart, and I just had a son and a few months later she had a son. My MIL complained about having a bridal shower even though I did not want one, so my MOH had one for her and then she called and said she could not make it, she was too tired. My MIL went to visit my DH's step sis in the hospital to welcome her daughter but "couldn't" make it to see her very own bio granddaughter when she was born because she had booked flights to vegas, which she just couldn't seem to move ( knowing when my due date was too).... she took 2 weeks to come see my son even though she was in town when he was born. She didnt come to either of my children's baby showers, she just barely made it to my daughters first birthday for a few minutes then left before everyone came, she missed both of my children's baptisms, and my daughters second birthday party. What pisses me off to no end is, she saw my s-SIL's new son the day he was born, was at her stepgrandaughters 2nd bday the day before my sons baptism and said they would be there!!! she's went to her other step grandsons's baptisms, which were way longer because they were older and not babies.
I dont think it is my place to call her out on this, but I'm not used to biting my tongue. My father missed my daughters bday and I let him know how I felt.
I just dont want to invite her to anything, any more. Nor do I want to entertain her ego by going to her dinners. I can't believe she treats her bio grandkids like shit, while she puts on a show for her step kids. Wtf?