DH and his "other woman"
DH made plans to drive back to our old town (about four hours away) to see a friend for his birthday. DH asked my parents if he could spend the night at their house, which is about midway between our town and friend's town. They were touched, as the last few times I have gone to see them DH has been unable to come along because of work, they were glad he wanted to see them.
So I find out by checking his phone today that DH had made plans to see his "other woman" while he was in our old town. This "other woman" lives 45 minutes north of said town, DH was going to be on the south side but said he would meet her on the north side. Meaning DH would drive 4.5 hours and "other woman" would drive less than 1 hour.
Obviously the only reason he wanted to spend the night at my parents' house was so that he could have more time with his "other woman." He could wine her and dine her with dinner and shopping and have a free place to sleep that night. Then he could come home to me the next day like nothing happened, high off his tryst with "other woman."
Well, I got sick and ruined all those plans, DH had to stay home and take care of me and our two BDs. He texted "other woman" to let her know plans were canceled.
Yep, "other woman" is SD20.