Verdict on SD23 graduation trip
BD12 went with DH and BD9 stayed here with me.
When BD9 was crying in the hallway about having to make an impossible decision, I took matters into my own hands and told her to just stay with me. We did a benefits of each option list and staying with me won out. Plus I found out the ONLY reason she really wanted to go with DH was that he promised to take her swimming at the hotel he'd booked.
It will probably be good for each kid to have some one-on-one time with a parent.
Plus BD9 had a school field trip and another event today she was sad to miss. And getting invited to a friend's birthday party Saturday and she would have missed that as well.
DH was mad because evidently he'd planned to get a photo taken of all three kids. But of course he didn't tell me that, so...