Splitting BD9 in two :(
So SD23 is graduating from college Saturday. DH wants BDs 12 and 9 to accompany him, it's a 5-hour drive one way.
BD9 is sad because she wants to spend Mother's Day with me but also wants to go see SD23. AND, DH just informed me he's made plans that require him to pull our kids out of school on Friday to travel to SD23's town.
But BD9 has a field trip that day. DH says she can't go.
Now BD9 feels split in two. She wants to go see SD23 but she also wants to be with me for Mother's Day and go on her field trip. Poor kid. I feel so bad for her, I want to take the decision out of her hands and say she will stay with me but that will make me the bad guy.