I havent posted on here in quite some time, but I have been on here reading other posts. I see so many posts and responses that relate to my situation that I havent felt the need to post. Today I decided to vent...lol. SD is now 30 years old..still married to oldest 2 girls father but living with another man and had a child by him...DH still thinks she walks on water...he has made the 1000 mile trip in June, July and August to spend time with his precious princess...I was conned into making the trip in June..came to find out it was because he blew thru all his money and I had to pay for everything...it was a miserable trip for me and I stated it was my last...SD never calls, texts, skype s or lets the girls either, unless she thinks DH is giving too much attention to me or my grandchildren,,,then the fb posts start..either many pics of her, her and boyfriend or perhaps the children or the posts about how much she misses her mother...all of which are designed to make DH fall all over himself to make her feel special and loved..this is beside the weekly posts he puts there to her about he loves and misses her...when I pointed out to him that it was pretty excessive he blew up...(by the way the few times he went to a counselor with me..the counselor even told him he had an unhealthy relationship with his daughter...he walked out on counselor when she said that)I have tried to explain my feelings...that I dont expect him to not have contact with his daughter but that I felt he put her as his only priority and that as an adult with her own relationship and family that i thought our marriage should be a priority...i was called stupid, crazy bitch and he would never give up his daughter for me...just tired

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