*Update* BM still trying to get into SS6 counseling sessions
We got the report from the social study back yesterday.
Social Worker insists "BM should be available to participate in SS6 counseling at therapist discretion".
BM tried yelling at DH about not consulting with BM, he put her in her place.
BM tried yelling at counselor about not consulting with BM, the counselor put her in her place.
Basically, DH has right to consent, not required to consult.
Details here in previous post: http://www.steptalk.org/node/131375
BM went to the only person that seems to actually buy into her load of crap and got the social worker to put this crap into the social study report.
How many times do we have to tell BM and social worker that we pay for SS6 to go to counseling, alone, with therapist, without DH, without SS8, without me, ALONE.
The counselor has told DH the following things:
-we need to get a pet
-SS6 does not have ADHD
-counselor has concerns about some of SS6 reports about movie/video game choices at BM house
-SS6 thinks BM is awkward in her interaction with SS6 and SS8 (she didn't say awkward, but that's the gist of it)
Other than that, DH sits in the waiting room and lets SS6 have his time with the counselor. If DH wants to talk to counselor, he pays a copay and goes in for his own appointment at which time he can share his concerns. Even then, the counselor doesn't "spill the beans" about SS6 sessions, it's a session for DH.
The counselor told BM she was welcome to come in and do the same. WHAT MORE DOES BM WANT?!?!?