It's so gross....how can you NOT care?????
I get to add another disgusting hygiene SD story to the many already on this site, yay me!
Laundry is one of my chores. It's my chore zen. I stopped doing SD16's laundry almost 2 years ago because of the nasty period/poo panties, failure to put clothes in the bin, and leaving her socks and panties all balled up with her pants.
I have also stopped telling her to do laundry because she is 16 friggin years old and I'm done.
It has been at least a month since she has done laundry. I try not to think about it. Gross.
There was a schedule mess this week and I did some dropoffs so we could all get to school and work on time. I drop SD16 off on Tuesday and notice a smell of Fritos corn chips and how she has major saggy butt on her jeans. You know how jeans get all stretchy when you don't wash them and how the smell of unwashed clothes kind of smells like Fritos? Just like that. THEN I notice a half-dollar sized round dark spot in the middle of her butt crack. Gee, I wonder what that could possible be?
In good disengagement form, I say NOTHING to SD16, but mention it to FDH. Last night, FDH was telling me how SD16 was stinking up the car but that she had just showered the previous evening. "It's because she hasn't done laundry in over a month and she's been wearing the same period stained jeans for over a week. I TOLD you about this, FDH." FDH calls SD16 over, and sure enough, same nasty period jeans. FDH asks why she hasn't changed clothes..."I haven't done laundry"....why hasn't she done laundry...."I dunno." I wanted to scream "because she is a lazy piggy that can't do anything without Daddy up her butt reminding her!"
We are all in a hotel for last night and tonight. The wood floors at our house are being refinished and need time to cure. SD16 could not be bothered to bring clean clothes, but she sure found it important enough to bring her nasty pillowpet blankie thing that she uses to suck her thumb and sleep at night.
I just don't get all these nasty SDs. How can you stand to be dirty or to be wearing dirty clothes as a soon to be adult????? And also as disturbing, as a Dad, how can you not be bothered that your 16 year old daughter is not practicing basic hygiene? She had her nasty period butt on the leather seats in my car, all over the couches, chairs.....GROSS!!!!