There is definitely a need for a Vigil/Funeral Bouncer.
So - updates.
Good news: DH received a distress call from SIL, who was so angry and pissed and stressed out. Toxic Troll was getting in the way, and so was Feral Forger. When they were tyring to change pads for MIL, they were right there, in the way.
Because they have RIGHTS.
DH yesterday, actually told her no, do NOT come. I was so proud. The first 2 days of the vigil, he would leave earlier than he wanted specifically because SHE was arriving.
Last night, she did not go, and he stayed almost until 11, and was very, dare I say, happy. I went home early, and he stayed and helped out and buzzed around his family. All was going fine. Munchkin was happy as well. She feels awkward and embarrassed with her mother there.
Bad news: I received a text from Munchkin that her mother is going to arrive and stay, and heck with what DH tells her.
Its all about HER of course and no one wants her there, and she doesnt care and doesnt get it.
And everyone is too nice and gracious to say anything.
So, DH will leave early again...and Toxic Troll and Feral Forger get to hang out and trample around.
I am hoping and praying that Toxic Trolls 2 cars BOTH blow up and/or get flat tires today. Please, if you pray, pray with me.