Couch surfer chronicles
Thanks everyone for the digital "smack" I needed. My mother (who also loves Sweetheart Niece) said exactly the same thing. Do NOT support her.
So I did the sane thing Mom advised and told Husband that its on him. No key, and day by day, but now shes out a week house sitting. Im not going to push anything, but if it comes to it, Ill be the bad guy that is honest with her about not wanting to support lazyness.