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oh please mark this one down in the BM #1 said "WHAT" seriously one of her all time BEST...........

buterfly_2011's picture

AFter a lot of foul language thrown at SO yesterday about what a worthless POS he is and how last summer I got the shit end of the deal (if you know my story you know all about this) and now SHE is getting the shit end of the deal. Well hate to break it to you bitch but you have been divorced for 5 years. You are NOT his wife anymore he does not OWE you any extra's he does not owe you any explanations regarding how we spend money or what we spend it on or WHY we don't have any. And he can say NO and you get throw all the stones you want. Bring up the past, bring up what happened five years ago but while you are at it lets talk about what happened five years ago.. when you CHEATED and that's why you are where you are today. She texted a whole slew of shit from the past. Which he didn't comment on much other then trying to ask her repeatedly what time will they meet sunday. That pissed her off even more. She finally broke and let him have it. Called him everything under the sun. All in text of course. Which is fine with us. Documentation of how unwilling she is to cooperate with their schedule etc. And how it's all about money to her. Keep digging woman. Keep digging. Then the woman who refuses to work told him that she has busted her ass to get her where she is today. That SHE is putting herself through college and SHE is raising three kids and SHE is the one providing for those kids. UM are you FUCKING kidding me? SHE IS?????? NO!!!!! She is not. My SO, her BF and the STATE is supporting her. She refuses to WORK! Then in her last stab she says to him........ WHY don't you get off your LAZY ASS and get a second job. OMG! HOW about YOU GET A FIRST JOB!

Oh there was so much more said. I am just so angry I can't think of all of it. I love a self proclaimer and a hypocrite. Where do these women come from? And how the hell do we get away from them. She even called his CORPORATE work office pretending to be his wife and they gave HER his personal info regarding garnishments. WTF??????

Oh it's early am where I live and I need a double shot of tequila.

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B22S22's picture

1) it's 5 o'clock somewhere (as the song goes)

2) raise holy hell with your DH's corporate office for divulging protected information

3) laugh. That's all you can do when it comes to this type of crazy. I know it's difficult, and the BM knows how to project her short comings on to your DH but....

justanothergurlNJ's picture

I love a self proclaimer and a hypocrite
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Aren't they all? Our BM claims she has to financially maintain a household. That requires one to pay rent/mortage, utilities, home owners insurance, taxes. BM does none of those things since lives with Grandma, she works FT her only real expenses are feeding and clothing her kids, yet she is ALWAYS broke and looking for money, well NO ONE told you to go buy a new car, new clothes every week, and I mean Name brand clothes and shoes, out every weekend. Don't get me wrong hey good for you, you don't have to live in the real world and have lots of nice things BUT DO NOT cry you are broke or claim you are broke because you are financlly supporting a household, you by NO means are not!

just tired's picture

OMG, I could have written your post! You definitely need to contact DH's corporate office and scare the shit outta them. They gave out PII and you could sue them and WIN.

buterfly_2011's picture

I have been divorced for 12 years. I still know my ex's SS number and all the important info but I would never in my life use it. I don't give a rats ass what he does or who with. I am a BM. And the ONLY time I talk to my ex is on Mondays when we do the exchange. And it's a quick where we going to meet today. Other than that there is no communication unless one of our kids is hurt. Then we contact each other. I like to think my ex has it made. I never went after him for support. I never asked for a single penny from him. BUT he helps with things on his own. He buys our kids what ever they need. Not want. But NEED. And I do the same. Like I buy school shoes and he buys the shoes for sports. So much easier to just be civil then to go through what my SO is going through. And it's ALL about money. She is ALL about money. THere is never a concern for the kids general well being. It's all determined by what he can give and when and how much. It is assnine.

Imgoingtoscream's picture

We have this same issue with my husbands ex. She has a new husband every yr. where she finds these men to support her I have no idea. She is constantly asking my husband for more money because she can't afford anything for the kids then if he says no or take it out of my child support that's what it's for, she will tell the kids that their dad doesn't give a shit about them and that's why they can't do whatever it is that she said she was going to pay for with the money. However, she has her hair done, nails done, new clothes, etc. every time we see her. Her and the new BF are supposedly buying a new house and new cars, because we just did the same thing, and if it's true then good for them! I'm glad they are doing well and taking care of the five children they unfortunately had by several different people! My suggestion would be to keep all the documentation possible! Text messages are great! My husbands ex got herself in a lot of hot water due to text messages. Document everything! I have a running word doc that I list everything on, the date, time and what happened. This will cover your ass if you ever need it in the future! I tend to think that ex's are this way because they are jealous that the other one is doing better, or they still want your husband! I know my husbands ex still wants him back.