How long do the steps carry on visitation?
My SS18 is an adult now but has still been staying Friday to Sunday at least every other week. He's now got a girlfriend and since the last disaster visit, he's not allowed to stay over (see previous post, Christmas misery!!)
im just really interested to see if this is quite normal? He only lives an hour away and drives lending his mothers car. He has no job and attends college only Mon-wed. My husband and his family help him out financially with fuel and insurance for the car. I suppose he feels he doesn't need a job with all the help.
I've had this for 10 yrs, it was weekly visits until a few years ago. I insisted it went to fortnightly!!! We couldn't really afford it as my husband did the driving until he passed his test. He also eats a lot and I couldn't afford to buy all the food he needs. He's around 20 stone and 6ft tall now.
Can anyone tell me when it's ended for you?? I would really like to know.