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Having no say in his kids visit

FLnokids2021's picture

What do you do when your guy just assumes it's cool to have his kids come stay with us for a month?  He doesn't even ask if it's okay with me even tho it affects me - it affects me financially and I also work from home so it's a distraction.  I always treat them kind but I feel a bit disrespected that it is assumed and not discussed.  Also, it's a hard subject to bring up to him bc he gets very defensive about them.


Dh channges tune when bm changed her mind

Maria10's picture

So DH and I agreed to go by the child's scheduled visitation. 

Last night Ss14 called DH to see if he could go to an all weekend thing and he  told ss that he could only if mom switches weekends. She said no. I asked DH several times during the evening f he would change his mind under specific circumstances. He said he wouldn't that SS was going to be with us over the weekend.

Today he comes home and tells me he reached a compromise with BM and he took Monday off to spend with his son who will be attending his weekend thing after all.


Disengagement with One Skid While Building Relationships with Others

ChamomileTea4Me's picture

It's the Monday after visitation weekend and time to decompress!  SS11 (SS10 had a birthday) and SS15 were here for the weekend and it was actually pretty darn good.  For the first time ever, SS11 asked MR.


Stepdaddy expects SS12 to be punished at our house

Maria10's picture

As you all know I have been complaining for awhile about Bm1 and her crazy. Today DH told me he was mad about a situation.

We had SS12 over the weekend. 

At the beginning of the weekend BM told DH that SS is to not play any video games at our house because he did not do the dishes at Bm house. (?)

 He is GREAT at doing chores at our house.So we let him play for a bit when he was at our house.