BM quizzed SS about DH and I's daughter on the phone........I'm Pi&&ed
BM called to talk to my SS today on the phone and we missed the call so DH had SS call her back a little bit ago. Conversation seems normal enough at first, DH's phone is loud so I can hear her talking and obviously hear everything SS is saying. Then the convo changed, she started asking if my daughter was walking then she was asking if she was talking, what was she saying, was she able to eat by herself. I mean what the fu** how is any of that her business. I would get it somewhat if my SS had brought it up but he didn't. This just pi&&es me off, I deal with the fact that DH was married before I deal with being the second woman to have his child, I deal with taking care of his mistake from when he was 19 every day all summer long. My daughter though is just mine she gets nothing to do with her. I don't want her asking about my kid, I don't want her looking at my kid. SS gets it, he knows that my daughter is not at all related to his mom I made it very clear in the beginning when he was asking what his mom was to my daughter and I told him nothing, I told him that his mom is important to him but she is not important to my daughter and that his mother is not a part of her life. So why is BM quizzing him about my kid it just rubs me the wrong way.
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I've heard my DH's ex ask DH
I've heard my DH's ex ask DH about my kids... how they do in school, etc. None of her freaking business! Their two children completely flunked school this past year, the last thing she needs to do is inquire about mine and she needs to start worrying about hers.
And my DH is no better. I listened to him last night report in to his EX what day/time we were leaving on vacation, the route we were going to take. I guess I could understand if the SK's were going to be with us, but THEY AREN'T.
WAAAAAAYYYYY too much sharing going on. My DH just needs to STFU.
My Dh doesnt talk to her
My Dh doesnt talk to her about stuff he avoids talking to her at all costs thank god. I would be really pissed if Dh told her about our lives.
Funny, my DH won't tell her
Funny, my DH won't tell her she owes us X amount of $ when they both agree to sign the kids up for EC's (and she asks my DH to just "sign them both up, I'll pay you back" WTFE) because he says he doesn't like talking to her. But then tells her this stuff?
He won't tell her to cough up her fair share because it's a pride thing with him. And sometimes I think telling her we're going on vacation is too -- because she never takes the kids ANYWHERE.
But my theory is then his pride needs to get a JOB
Thank god my DH is cheap
Thank god my DH is cheap about most things, I get annoyed sometimes about it but at least I don't have to deal with extra money going to BM.
If he wants to give her extra money I would be telling him to get an extra job because your home needs the money to.
Our BM pries SD about
Our BM pries SD about information on my bio-daughter but I think its because she is trying to get ammunition. I'm not sure why the crazy woman would care about a baby?!?!
Exactly my daughter is 1, she
Exactly my daughter is 1, she spends her day learning to walk and playing with her toys. I don't know if she was trying to compare her devolpment to my SS's development, because the questions were kind of development questions. Maybe she is just trying to find some way to be superior, because she is not superior in any other way. If that is it though she fails according to my DH our daughter is months ahead of anything my SS did at her age.
BM has done this in the past.
BM has done this in the past. It bothered me, but I got over it quickly. Maybe BM is trying to compare? Maybe BM is hoping that your child is behind? Maybe BM is hoping that HER child/ren developed quicker. I don't know. Either way, it's really none of her business.
Even if BM didn't quizz him/her on the phone, I'm sure she will when she sees him/her in person. BM in my situation quizzes the Hell out of SD about where we went, what we did, where we shop, what we bought and pries and quizzes her about our kids. Oh well, I have learned that I can not stop it and I know we have a very normal, happy and stable life (which BM does not)so BM will not hear anything negative (thats not a lie)