I'm so sick of bio mom. Recently stepson12 told us her gets drilled with 100 questions when they come home that he cannot stand stand it. He was so upset that night, he wouldn't eat. So DH asked him if he wanted him to talk to his mom & see if he could get her to back off. He made comments as to like that will work, but whatever I don't care, I just can't take it. So we dropped kids off. Then sent text "son is very upset, would not eat, been upset for last 2 hours, please be sensitive to him & not question him, he is hurting, saying when they return the pressure is too much for him." Bio mom texts back not to tell her how to parent. DH replies "I am not, I'm just letting you know he is in a fragile emotional state & hurting & hasn't eaten & please be sensitive. It's hard to see him upset, that is all." She text backs some more about she will decide what she wants to do, it's not his business. DH doesn't reply bc what's the sense communicating with nuts.

So ever since... That's been a month ago. Bio mom sends these texts "I have a very important apt, will you be on time to get kids" or "kids will be at my moms bc my mom needs their help with all the changes there" All of these texts that in the past DH would usual ask kids "is everything ok with grandma?" Or "so mom had an apt huh?"

But bc bio mom is nutso we know she's trying to bait us into asking the kids anything so she can say YOU ASKED THE KIDS.....!!!

It's more every damn day. Hello. We don't care. Live your dumb life. Don't emotionally abuse these kids. That's what we care about greasy crow. That's it. Period.