Well this changes things
So today DH had his son in law over. We got to talking about how picky SGD and SD are. SIL made the comment that at least he knows the kids with his DNA will eat whatever. I stated my kids are not extremely picky eaters. They will try anything.
DD had a friend over last night. She was here until lunch. They had a lot of snack and junk. Just a fun night, morning with a friend. Happens once in a blue moon. DD wasn't that hungry at dinner. But I told her to take a couple of bites and dump it. Once in a blue moon situation. DH gets involved, told DD to show me her plate. Whatever. So I then told DD to put it in the microwave and dump it before bed. DD goes to do that. DH starts in on her. So is she just going to leave it in there. Why doesn't she just do this or that. I go in. Told DH I told her to dump it, that wasn't good enough. So I told her to put it in the microwave, that isn't good enough for you. I don't need you overriding what I tell my kids to do, and throwing your comments in. If you have a problem with it, take it up with me, NOT the 12 yr old. He starts in on well Earlier you were telling SIL how your kids are different this and that ( ohhhh, THERE it is. HOW dare anyone say anything about SGD and OSD) I told him once again I had already taken care of it, you have jumped in twice to try to override me. NOT ok. He kept going back to the early conversion with SIL. I told him once again, leave my daughter out of this stuff, if you have an issue, take it up with me. I told her to take care of it at bed time. DH looks at DD what does take care of it mean? I don't know, do you? I'm standing right there telling him to kept DD out of it. He tells DD so I'm no longer a authority figure, understand? I once again, tell him. Look you have overridden what I told her to do TWICE. Not ok. He starts in on I shouldn't have said anything to him in front of DD ( who he has completely confused) ends with me telling him, I had taken care of this TWICE and TWICE you try to override me. NOT ok. He storms out with its because he has a penis. Yeh, I was talking over him ALOT because the man would not shut up. What part of this is TAKEN CARE OF did he not get?
I gave it a year. This ever happens again, I AM GONE!!! He will NOT do this to my kids. He is all pissy because I dare speak of how picky SGD and OSD are. So he tried to take it out on DD. FUCK NO!!!
I don't see us being here the rest of the year. HOW DARE HE!!!!
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Of course he had to have this
Of course he had to have this fight. You said something negative about his little speshul snowflakes, so he had to attack yours to feel better about his.
Yep. I didn't understand what
Yep. I didn't understand what his issues was until he started well earlier you were going on with SIL how your kids are different this and that. Light bulb.
Jerk
I hope you told your DD that
I hope you told your DD that this wasn't her fault and explained that her Stepdad was just going through some stuff at the moment.
Yeh I did. Afterwords I was
Yeh I did. Afterwords I was doing laundry and watched DD come in a door she doesn't use. I asked her what she was doing? She was using routes in the house to completely stay away from DH. She and I hung out until she fell asleep. It was better for her after that.
Ye Olde Double Standard rears
Ye Olde Double Standard rears it's ugly head once again.
"Yeah my kid is a double ax murderer, but YOUR kid left a 1/4" tidbit of crust from his/her toast this morning."
Comparing raw sewage to a heavy dew (and grasping at straws trying to draw similarities)