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The big G's picture

Hi guys,

We are off camping this weekend. Meeting up with old friends and chill time with the dd's.

Dh2b asked if sd16 could join us. I agreed, we would have asked her automatically but sd16 wont travel without bf15 and no room in car. So i arranged for dh2b brother and kid to join us. Unfortunately he cant until Sat morning as he is working. Today sd is in a bad mood has thrown the following fits tonight.

1. The tent her and bf had was a small pop up. They only had to sleep in it. SD went daft and now has a full tent, extra £12.00.

2. Sleeping bag isn't good enough, wanted us to get her a new one. She had only used her one 2 times. Dh2b in his defence got one of his dads for her.

3. Complained about our friends being there. That's the reason we are going.

4. Moaned shes missing the first night. Implied i should miss the first night instead. Bleached her hair during the week then moaned she cant go swimming.

5. Purposely started fights tonight, left dirty underwear around in bathroom etc, slamming doors when dds in bed. Usual get me to bite crap. Didn't even acknowledge her. Ignored all the bad behaviour and let dh2b deal with it.

DH begged me to speak to her, nope sunshine ur spoilt entitled kid not mine. SD16 then proceeded to wind dh2b up. Moaning about our wedding again how she is unfairly treated etc. Then threatened to move out if we got married. ( god i hope that happens )

Well through out her shouting about me loud enough for me to hear, i didn't bite once. Ignored her, this must have wound her up more as she kept on at dh2b until he snapped (rare event) he did defend me during this time calmly.

DH2b came downstairs looking for a fight with me to vent i think. I was polite and smiled didn't bite and stayed calm. He asked why i was so positive, well i am going away with my family and meeting friends i am happy. DH2b looked wound up like a coil. Welcome to my OLD world. I am done with looking after ur brat. Being unpopular with her so u can be the saint. Ur kid ir problem. Zen feeling is amazing, i am not stressed. All packed to go tomorrow. Calm and chilled out. Hope i can continue to let it all go.

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QueenBeau's picture

Your DH is an idiot because of the following things:
1. bf is SD16's boyfriend? Why in God's name would he be going on a camping trip with you all and them sleeping together in their own tent
2. With her behaving this way, why is she still going at all?

JingerVZ's picture

#2!! After her disgusting entitled behavior I would leave this kid at home, not reward her with a camping trip!

The big G's picture

Personally i would love too, but trying a different tactic of leaving it all to dh2b. If she plays up not my problem. Wants something again not my problem. If she needs help with tent me and kids will be swimming etc. She will not impact my weekend she will be dh problem x

The big G's picture

Completely different blog on sleeping thing. I know its not acceptable. Hands up to it being my choice to stay with him. I voiced my concerns and got veto'd. Dh2b is a soft wet sponge when it comes to sd. Her BM is a waste of space and he massively over compensates. What sd wants she gets. I have let it go. And works in my favour as she is at bf house 50/50 with our house. So silver lining. Except for sd and his ways hes perfect. Great dad to our dds, soft when he needs to be and hard when he has too.

QueenBeau's picture

It won't work to your favor if she gets pregnant & your DH starts shelling out cash to SD & the baby. & SD ends up living with you guys until like 25. With the kid. Who will also be a brat most likely.

Ugh horrible situation

Disneyfan's picture

Sounds like your husband can't wait to be a grandpa. I wonder if he plans to provide the lovebirds with mood music, roses and wine?

Your SD is one special girl. Most dads aren't kind enough to provide a special setting for their teen girls to get knocked up. :sick: