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Yippy Skippy-Sd17's manipulation of H is working in my favor-this time

bewitched's picture

We're having Thanksgiving here. H's mother is in the nursing home 30 miles away, where H's sister lives.

The last time we went to visit H's mother, the nursing home aide was a good looking young man. I saw SD17 making eyes at him. I even commented on it-whereupon I received the "why don't you just die" glare from her.

Suddenly, SD17 is best friends with her cousin, the sisters daughter. Whom she has not spoken to in years. Why?-because sd17's cousin knows this boy.

So now, suddenly, SD17 has a fierce interest in going to H's sisters on Thanksgiving.

So SD17 now will pretend to be so close to her aunt, her cousin, so she can spend all her free time in the town this boy lives in. Which is wonderful for me. We'll have dinner here, H and his leeches can to spend all the rest of the day 30 miles away, so SD17 can get her flirt on with this boy. And my son and I will watch football. Just the two of us. He'll have his beer, I'll have my wine, and who cares if the leeches come home that night to a slighty tipsy me? Wink

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sarahbernheart's picture

you have a couple of glasses of wine and !enjoy enjoy! being with your son,
what a wonderful thanksgiving to look forward to.

"Better a diamond with a flaw than a pebble without one."

KeepsGettingBetter's picture

Sounds like it's going to be a great day.
Hopefully SD17 spends as much time as she can at her cousins house so it can give you some peace for once.
Oh no, how is H going to feel if his precious daughter hooks up with this new man. Maybe he'll buy matching shoes for all 3 of them to wear lol (Sorry Betwitched, couldn't help but add that one in).

I'm so glad for you that you get to spend some one on one time with your son. Enjoy every minute of it and don't only get tipsy, get totally smashed so then you wont even remember if H and the leeches come home at all.

bewitched's picture

"To Thine Own Self Be True" William Shakesphere

Geez, I haven't tied one on in like, forever. Last time my son was home, we were talking about excessive drinking. I was going to drive his truck home from eating out, cause he wanted to have a few beers. And I was like...well, what if I want a few beers too? He just looked at me, all puzzled-and said, Mom, you've never been drunk. Which means when my son and I were living, just the two of us, and I was dating and going to parties, I hid it real well!

But it's been a great day. Beautiful outside, washed all the blankets, comforters etc I could get my hot little hands on so I could dry them outside-love that smell! Dani cracked me up, 4ofus made me remember who I used to be with her marathon, and 5teens has hope. Good day. (and H is at work, skids at their bm's). Really good day.

KeepsGettingBetter's picture

I'm so happy that's been a good day for you, hopefully you have many more to come xo.

now4teens's picture

I was just thinking about the look on your DHs face the day she gets a serious boyfriend and he & SD show up at your house with
matching shoes!

BWAAAAAAHAAAAAHAAAAA!!!!!!! }:-)

"If you have never been hated by a child, you have never been a parent."
-Bette Davis

KittyKat's picture

All things really DO happen for a reason...peace,
quiet, serenity....and you didn't life a finger to
make it happen...is FATE taking a turn for the BEST?

YOU KNOW IT!! Biggrin Have a BLAST...and like 5Teens
said, H will probably be crying in his chocolate milk
since SD has "another man"!! And, H's "selfish wife"
doesn't even care!! (Oh, I'm tearing up here..sniff!)

"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent."-Eleanor Roosevelt