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Surprise, surprise, Christmas Eve being bitched out by H

bewitched's picture

So H calls-first says he's not coming home for Christmas as he has to be to work Friday morning. This was at 4:00 pm christmas Eve. And he's mad-HIS GIRLS will miss Christmas. I said they could still come. Then he wanted me to go get his mother in the morning-1/2 hr. there, 1/2 hr. back, so with loading time, it would take me 1 1/2 hrs. On Christmas morning. With my son here, my sister coming, all this food to cook!

I told him no. SD17 can go get her grandmother. Then he asked what my son is doing-HE WANTED MY SON TO GO GET HIS MOTHER SO SD17-HER OWN GRANDDAUGHTER, WOULDN'T HAVE TO! Thank God my son is spending the nite at his fathers and won't be here to do H's bidding.

So I got to listen to 45 minutes of him bitching me out, whining, crying about his job (he had this job for the last 2 years-I wasn't even in the picture).

Wish he wasn't coming. As usual, he was playing drama king and is on his way.

He says next Christmas and Thanksgiving will be different-we'll all go to a cabin near where he works (we meaning the leeches and I). Right. Like I'm going to go away with him and his spawn and leave my family. Yep, it will be different next year. Because if we're not divorced by then, we'll be in the process. I'm not taking this crap one more day.

Merry Christmas Eve, H. Thanks again. What an a@@hole.

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KittyKat's picture

And have a few drinks for yourself!

My H is at the "dysfuctional family Christmas dinner" (I chose to work so I had to miss it...I'm sure you can feel my TEARS all the way out there!)....I wonder who's carrying on at the "dinner" this year. Always a dilemma; always a drama.

I got in from work a bit ago, I'm having a nice glass of wine and I have a gorgeous purrrrring kitty kat on my lap. The highlight of my night will be when the cats open up their gifts...power catnip, they'll be bouncing off the walls all night. (Better THEM than loony SDs...)

"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent."-Eleanor Roosevelt

bewitched's picture

"To Thine Own Self Be True" William Shakesphere

My son will be back tomorrow-my folks & sis here...so it will be a good day regardless of H & leeches.

Merry Christmas, girl.

disgusted's picture

Oh for petes sakes!! Why can't his brat go get her grandma??? Why are you and your son expected to do it? That's the least the spoiled brat could do since she has a car that I suspect her parents bought her ungrateful self!! I'm sure it will kill her to make the trip to pick up grandma!! What an ass!! He would have a cow if you even suggest that he or her "angel" make that drive to pick up one of YOUR relatives!

In a perfect world their would be retroactive abortion capabilities. ~ disgusted