The one thing that bothers me with issues that go on with BM is the fact that my DBF's family has involved themselves in the drama to say the least. Here's a glossary of people involved:
Nutty McDougal - BM
Jezebel - DBF's 3rd cousin, best friend with Nutty McD. & sleeps with married men!
Bowl Cut - Jezebel's loud obnoxious mother, DBF's 2nd cousin
Dry Curl - Bowl Cut's bother/Jezebel's uncle who I think does the *wink wink* with Nutty McDougal
Dazed - Bowl Cut's younger sister/Jezebel's aunt & Nutty McDougal's former college advisor.
With these names in place, I can explain my story and why the hell these people bother me so.
DBF and I have been together for a little over 2 years. Nutty McDougal was someone he knocked up while having drunk sex (he thought he put a rubber on, but didn't) and Nutty McDougal had been a friend of the family for years, so I guess she thought because they had sex, she was a shoo in for the position of WIFE.
Here we are 2 years and some odd months later and she and this branch of his family have it out for me and him. We both come under attack at different times and for different reasons, but my whole point is: WHAT FUCKIN' BUSINESS IS IT OF YOURS ANYWAY?!
For starters, DBF and I were dating when Nutty McDougal said she was pregnant. We moved in together after 6 months of dating. He's told her over and over again, it was her choice to keep the baby and he would support HIS SON, not her!
Now, Jezebel, Bowl Cut, and Dry Curl all believe, because of what she has told him, that I'M the reason they are not together. No one has ever asked my DBF, they just all assumed that it has to be me. I'm sorry, people, DBF was given a choice. I told him that if he wanted to be with her, he could. I was not holding him hostage. He chose to stay with me.
During this time period, these people have ADVISED Nutty McDougal not to allow him visitation, go to court for CS when she was already getting an ample amount every month and to basically make his life a living hell. Nutty McDougal has been stupid enough to repeat that is stuff to DBF and we just can't understand why grown people act this way.
They call her and tell her if we're doing renovations to OUR house, when we got a new car, what I wore to a family function. Jewelry that he has gotten me for special occasions have been photographed without my knowledge and emailed to her by these people.
When my son was born, I refused to have any of them come to the baby shower. We decided as a couple that they were only going to come to cause drama. They weren't invited to the baptism either, but Bowl Cut made her presence known and I didn't want her there, but it's church. Nutty McDougal couldn't wait to get on the phone with DBF after this function.
Every move we make is monitored and dissected for her. It's not like we're trying to be sneaky, we're just trying to live. The only one in all of this who seems to have some sense is Dazed, but who knows if she can really be trusted since she's the one who has the most contact with Nutty McDougal anyway. It's just a mess.
This past weekend, since we have SS, Nutty McDougal called 10 times to ask DBF if he would drop SS off to spend time with the Instigators. Every time he said no, he doesn't fool with fake people, so why should he take his son over there? I have actually taken MY son away from Bowl Cut at several family functions when she's been told to her face not to touch my child. These people took pics of MY son at the family reunion and sent them to her so that she had comments about my son's Ralph Lauren Polo Shirt or his expensive Nike shoes. I work hard so my son can have and she's calling because HER son doesn't have. Get a job bitch and stop having kids by men that don't want you.
Jezebel got cursed out by me in July for talking about me behind my back, but I could clearly see it on Facebook. I called her out on it and she tried to say she was gonna call the cops for harrassment. Bitch, your whole family harrasses my boyfriend over some nutty, lazy bitch that you all think he should have married because he had sex with her. I bet your mother would be real proud to know that you fuck around with married men!!! Oh the things I could say at family functions and don't!!!
I have taken the high road, but it's getting hard with the Holidays rolling around now and I have to deal with these people who are just soooo fake and phony! I have a hard time keep my mouth closed so it should be interesting. Brutally honest with no apologies. If I don't like you, you'll know it!