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Oh Joy! (Update)

Anywho78's picture

So after the craziness that was my hellacious week last week all caused by BM Nasty’s flakiness (blogged about http://www.steptalk.org/node/63884), she…wait for it…FORGOT!

The Skids told her that we were busy on Friday & Saturday…that Sunday (anytime) would be the only time that they could Skype this weekend. Well…Sunday rolls around & nothing, zip, zilch, nada!

The woman forgot that she was supposed to talk to her kids (it would have been first REAL (lasting more than 10 minutes) conversation since early February). The Skids didn’t remember (nothing was mentioned). I asked SO if he wanted to remind them so that they could text her to let her know that they were ready when she was…he said “Uh…NO…I don’t want a repeat of this week if she’s too busy to follow through!”…I said “OK” & dropped it.

I’m counting the days until they are old enough to see her for what she is instead of the constant crap I am forced to hear about their “perfect, beautiful, wonderful, most awesome EVER mommy”.

Hell, with my luck, she will continue to be perfect in their eyes FOREVER.

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Superstopmommy's picture

Unfortunately, YES she will always be MOTY in their eyes. It seems kids are always craving some sort of affection from the estranged parent. It does suck big time. Grin and bear it is what I have to do to get by.

Anywho78's picture

I know. I can dream though Smile

SS9 now doubts what Nasty says & seems to confirm EVERYTHING with either SO or I while SD worships the ground she walks on.

Anywho78's picture

Actually...the ONLY time she skyped with the SKids in the last 2 months was for a 10 minute conversation where she CONSTANTLY cut the Skids off to tell them about her trip to the ER (for a bladder infection...yeah...they needed to know that) & how she was SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO tired because of how long she was at the ER...yeah...she's a winner!