You don't have to like us. You can hate us. You and DH obviously hate each other.

We don't like you, either. But we don't bash you or your partner to the kids. Why? Because a) as much as DH hates you he loves the kids so much more and b) both he and I are mature adults who have found ways to blow off our steam about you without the kids knowing.

If you could keep your hatred of us confined to ivillage, your support system of people and a therapist, your kids would be much better off.

Also, trying to bash me to the kids via MySpace is a really stupid idea. I can see it and did. Even if I couldn't see it, the kids would have pointed it out to me because I'm the one they can come to when they need advice, love and support. They live with us because you let them get molested. They can't trust you, and unfortunately, they had to learn that the really hard way.