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BBB got me thinking....What do I love??

2Bloved's picture

I was writing this in response to BBB's blog, but then it got too long, so I decided to do my own blog.

What do I love.....The little things, I guess....When I'm taking a nap or he thinks I'm asleep, he'll lean over me, kiss my cheek and whisper in my ear how lucky he is to have me and that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, little sweet nothings. He gives the best hugs!! Love the spontaneous back rubs. Love when he's out somewhere and see's something he thinks I'll like, or when we're out and I'll see something I like, he'll go back and buy it for me.

Let's see....

Saturday night- ran me a bath and gave me a back rub. Brought me a warm glass of milk b/c I couldn't sleep.

Sunday morning- got up at 6:30 to put the coffee on for me. Brought me a mug while I was getting ready for work. Walked out and he had packed my lunch for me. Smile

Sunday night- Came home to a sparkling house, laundry done, and dinner on the stove. Another bath ran for me. Back rub with Bath and Body Works Sleep Lavender Vanilla lotion. Still couldn't relax, so I got some "special" attention... Wink

Monday morning- nothing...I came home from work and made dinner, he took the kids to GEM's while I laid down. While I was making dinner, he got the Kitchen Aide out and made chocolate chip cookies from scratch!! Had to work a double shift that day, so tried to get some sleep. Woke up to have another thermos of coffee made and my dinner and school bag packed.

Tuesday morning- called and asked for a kiss before I went home to go to bed. Nothing big, just sweet. Last night we were watching Blazing Saddles (he had to convince me to sit down, and I laughed my ass off BTW). He sat and rubbed my feet during the movie. Later on when I was on the computer doing homework, I got a backrub.

This morning- woke up, he brought me coffee again, made my thermos. Made me a yummy turkey bacon, turkey, tomatoe and cheese omelette for breakfast, and packed my lunch.

WOW!! I just realized that I'm taking FH for granted now. Not really taking him for granted, but just not as....aware....of all that he actually does for me and for us. I think I'm going to print this out and post it at my work desk for the next time we have a huge blow up. I posted before, but it took three long years to get to this point, and I am so happy that I did not give up!! There is hope...

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2Bloved's picture

Oh, and we've never fought naked. What I do is walk away sometimes and run my own bath, and when he walks in to continue it, I'll be standing there in my thong and bra, and he loses his train of thought. What I WILL do next time the argument escalates is demand we take our clothes off! See what happens then LOL. It's hard to hold on to anger when you're laughing!!

belleboudeuse's picture

Sometimes it's all worth it, isn't it?

BB

- You are not second best, you are not second class. Do not ever let anyone make you feel that way. (2Bloved)