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Shift in DH's behavior whenever SKID comes around

dragonfly878's picture

So every time SS16 is over I notice a shift with DH. For the longest time I couldn't quite put my finger on it- but today I was finally able to name it.

There will be times when SS16 is with us that DH will act patronizing and/or dismissinve toward me. This only ever happens when SS16 is in the room or within earshot. I have brought it up to DH in the past- and he apologizes and says that he wasn't aware he was doing anything but will pay attention to it. He says he's not trying to be that way, etc. etc. 

This was Ridiculous!

FrustratedandLost's picture

It's been a long time since I posted here but thought I would ask if I was correct or not. Two weeks ago SD called her dad at 8:15 p.m. asking if he was in bed yet. He answered yes and asked why. SD said she was in our town and was on her way over. He got off the phone with her and I asked if she was coming over and he said yes. SD got there at 8:30 p.m. and I got pissed saying SD was rude and inconsiderate to just show up. SD has done this multiple times. SO got mad at me and I said this is my house and I have every right to say what I want.

Dinner Routine Sucks

Dogmom1321's picture

Dinner at our house is forced and I hate it.

I do homemade meals maybe 4 nights a week. The other days are leftovers or pizza. Usually around 6:00pm. DH was running a little behind from work, but I still made tacos. Myself and DS3 sat down with our food and I also told SD13 dinner was ready. I usually DON'T yell upstairs because 1. pet peeve of mine for yelling in the house and 2. SD13 can have the decency to come out of her room if she's hungry. 

I just don't get it..

Tigerlily7's picture

BM is now hiding/evading law over her active warrants one of my SD's had an emergency last week and is still having a hard time as soon as I found out what was going on with her the BM is the first person I had to fight to get ahold of and out of kindness/concern let them know what was going on with their child. Husband told her until she got the warrants taken care of he was not sending the kids, he spoke with attorney who consulted the judge in the case they encouraged DH to bring it back to court for sole custody.

Another Strange "Coincidence"

la_dulce_vida's picture

Friday I got a notice that a movie had been rented on my Amazon Prime account. I texted my DD30 first since we live together. She didn't do it. I asked my sons but I kinda already knew they didn't have access to my Prime Video account. Wasn't them.

While there is a slight chance I used my Amazon Prime somewhere at an airbnb, I am fairly certain it was my XBF because I know for sure I logged into it on his TV.

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