Tis with a heavy heart and puffy eyes that I am blogging this today. After over 3 years, it's over, SO and I broke up.

So I want to keep this as short as possible as I have a lot of work to get done. I need your guys advice so here it is.

SO had court yesterday to deal with the issue of BM living with her druggie BF. SD came to us and said that she was afraid to live there because of all the drama.

Sorry this is so long. I made a very good friend at work. We hung out a lot, did play dates with our kids. She was with me throughout my divorce.

I've been holding in this rant for a long time, dear MIL.

I’m in a love triangle and it has nothing to do with BM… DH, SD and me. DH can’t figure out who he is married to.

Regarding my post yesterday about SD15 using DH's and my razors, some questioned why we/I didn't buy her her own razors.

I just wanted to clarify, since posts can get buried, that we did.

Just found out that BM is on welfare. Now is she not only on medicaid, foodstamps and hud housing she is now on cash benefits also. Found this out because she has a child with an ex boyfriend.

I am tired of everyone accusing me of being the bad guy.

I can't tell if SD8 get her intelligence from BM1 or DH.