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Can I just say that it is SO WONDERFUL to know that I am not alone!! i stubled on this site this morning after being up until 3am this morning crying out of pure frustration of my bf's ex. (been divorced over a year) His beautiful daughters are here for spring break and the 6 of us (my 2 sons live with us) have had an awesome week. BUT I am so completley exhausted of his ex's juvenile and just plain mean actions. She is so manipulative to them and uses them as pawns against him. The storeis are unbelieveable...I really have felt like she was going to win latley.
This is a money rant. I know a lot of people have worse financial issues, but I just need to get it out.
Well, I've been on both sides. In my former relationship, I had the step son from hell. A totally lazy, thieving, angry, inconsiderate slob. My former SD, while very clingy in her younger years, actually grew up decently and we had a good relationship.
Now I have two SD's who I like, but find them a little clingy as well. They are growing out of it, but not soon enough!
So I ask you all with experience with both sexes. Which is worse?
Short recap; SS18 lives 1000 miles away with no-parent BM and he's been in trouble constantly past four years: truancy, drugs, drinking, DUI, flunked 8th grade twice, etc. Is fairly smart and has tons of talent as a musician and athlete but seems to thrive on underachievement and self pity. Now says he wants to join Marines--this a kid who can't even get out of bed.
So SD got her FB back but mom had the password. This meant she couldn't use it at our house. Then BM gave DH the password so that he can log SD on when she's at our house. But she asked him not to give it to anyone because things like that should be between the two of them only.
I kinda get it. Kinda, but not really. It feels like DH and BM partnering up and leaving me out completely. It feels like they are having secrets together, and this just isn't a good feeling.
He texted bm and asked why the change that ss15 is going? Couldn't have been b/c I said I wanted to pick him up from school?
She texted back that it was a family trip and not everything is about u.
What really? No you are the one that thinks it is all about you!
Dh called her at that point and he laid into her about the whole mess and told her that it wasn't about him or her but about the kids and her games she plays with them.
Monday I opened the mail only to find out that the state took DHs tax return to pay for Jabbas TANF that she illegaly took. The TANF thing is something we've been fighting for over a year. So I let DH know that it was taken and Ill have new appeal papers drawn up that afternoon. He didnt handle it well. He took to FB and posted that EVERYONE (which included me, but I didnt know) takes advantage of him and hes way to nice about it. In short FTW and hes done.
Ok yall, well here is the update from yesterday! Yep my hubby went to see counselor alone yesterday and I was excited because when we went together the counselor saw right through my husband and was basically giving him tips on how to fix our problems regarding his relationship with ex wife and kids and gave him advice on how to draw boundry lines for her.....well as most of you know the BM said hubby can see kids but not with me he has to visit them elsewhere basically anywhere where I am not!
I'm done with that little bitch.I am BANNING her from my house and for anyone who tells I can't do that F**K THAT!I will explain my problem the best I can.I'm shaking so bad right now I'm struggling to get my typing correct.I'm an insomniac first of all but last night was one night I managed to sleep deeply rather than zombie sleep which isn't really sleep at all.I've been working on a personal piece for my bedroom for months.it's a sculpture that will be bronzed when it's finished.Ha I say that like it's ever going to get finished now that I have to start over.Last night or early this am i
She called with a 5-minute long sob story about how she's about to get fired from her job and she locked her keys in her car while the car is running and she needs DH to come save her. HA! Yeah, right. DH was like "Umm.. sorry I can't leave work."
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