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Well this is what is going on,after three years of marriage his fifteen year old daughter just out of the blue tells here dad that she liked me and loved me but she wished we never got married and then tonight his son ask if him and his mom can get back together,my husband responded to his son by saying(sorry buddy but that is not going to happen) the son then replied (ok) then let his dad go..
This has been a really exhausting skid week.
SO is mad at me, he says I'm in a bad mood today. And he's right. I am in a bad mood. I feel like this whole week I've catered to everyone, including him. He's had his head in his work or his computer or his Ipad all week, including this weekend. It doesn't bother me when it's just the two of us, but when we have SD I get emotionally exhausted and I just need more from him.
So we had all the kids this weekend and decided to go shopping for some things. We go into a Department store and DH is trying on sunglasses with all the kids giving suggestions. Then we hear "there is the girls' mom". I look around to see BM crouching thru the aisles and saying Girls, Girls. Very wierd, why crouch thru the aisles, like she is doing something sneaky...
I am new to this site but after reading some posts I think this may be what I need. I have a DH who has 1 daughter8 and 1 son(6), with 2 different women. Never married to either of them...We got married and now have a daughter together 8 months old. I didn't have time to adjust to being a new mom because I had SS all day and night because BM went to school to do hair. We used to not get along with SS's BM but now the table have turned and we really do not get along with SD's BM. I can't stand the way she raises SD and tries to dictate how we will raise SD at our home.
ok so i will probably sound like a royal bitch, but i really don't care. ok so (with dh's permission) i set up a yahoo account for sd (13 at that time now 14). so bm doesn't monitor either of them closley, so ok...i set up the accounts, i need to monitor, well, sd 14 decides that she's going to set up an google account without permission from anyone, i check her account, and see "google e-mail verification" so i print and show to dh, he confronts ex about it, and of course lies her ass off about it.
I won't go into the long story of the past 6 years or hellishness my family has gone through, you can always read my previous posts if you're curious.
I've been off this website for a few months, mostly because of being busy, but also because things have been relatively calm in the stepkids realm. Until this weekend. And let me clarify - it's not the SK - it's the BM. My DD just turned 3 on Tuesday and DH and I decided to throw her a little party with family and close friends since both SD and SS would be here this weekend. No biggie. Everything is going fine until the party when all of the gifts are pulled out. SS's gift was the last one and when DD pulled everything out, they were all stuffed animals wrapped in grocery ads.
I said my first St. Jude prayer today. I feel so torn, so desperate, so out of control. I keep giving people power, instead of giving God the power. I need to find a way to be a better mother, to let things go like I used to. Andrea, Alisha, and Aydan deserve it. Cierra and Cayden deserve to not live in such blended family chaos. I feel like I am in a corner, and stuck with no options, no rights. I feel like whatever the "ex" wants, she gets. Not because my husband gives it to her, but because he is stuck in the same corner, united only in his frustration with me.
FDW has seen the light and there's been nothing said about my getting my bio's this coming weekend.
I AM SO STOKED!
I have an indoor triathlon on that weekend too...
So we have some medical bills that we have to pay half on for the ss7 and sd11. Well BM sends us and email here are the amounts call the doctors office and give them your credit card number.
UM NO!
We need to see bills and what it is for. So we called and the doctors office said they keep giving the bills to the BM and she just keeps saying that we are not willing to pay our portion. After explaining it to the billing dept of the doctors office they completely understood, and said they were sorry we have to deal with this on such a complicated level.
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