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The almost week long silence between DH and I is finally over. Went to his free legal services lawyer last week to do our wills. I was surprised that when I got there the wills were already made out and ready to sign. As I look it over I immediately find a number of mistakes or things that I felt we needed to go home and discuss first. He claimed he had read it and was ready to sign. He was not aware of the mistakes until I started to point them out.
okay so back when school started I went to pick up SS6 and SD8 (from 2 different schools btw) and couldn't find SD8 anywhere. So I'm driving around the school, freaking out, having a heart attack, for 15 minutes. I cannot get out to look because I had SS6 and our 5 month old daughter in the car. So I pick up my phone to call DH to tell him someone has kidnapped SD8, and I get a text saying BM decided to pick her up. It was 15 minutes before she text DH to tell him!
My dd wanted me to write her a note so she can be late to school yesterday. WHY you might ask? She wanted to drop her bf's vday present off at his school. I told her I was not going to write her note but I wasn't going to tell her she couldn't do it. She wants to be treated like an adult so she can make her own choices and she can either reap the benefits or consequences of her choices. Either it was her choice as to what she does.
Since my last blog entry about BM asking child support services for a review, she has been notified of any changes to the child support order and in turn filed a Motion against DH stating that the "medical insurance is not reasonable".:jawdrop: We have talked with our lawyer about this and he states that it must have increased for her to cause a pain over it and no judge will grant her motion.
I had a very interesting conversation with my SO the other day about his absentee ex wife and involvement in her daughters' life I thought I would share:
So we subpoenaed all my sk's medical records
After receiving them it is interesting that when the bm is asked what is going on she said nothing and even to the court said that SD11 is having medical issues that are confidential. When we received the notes today it says she has constipation. WOW how is that confidential.
So, since SO told his daughters that I had left (and of course they acted like they had no freakin clue why I would leave), I have not heard from them at all. I mean, when I at least lived in the house I would get a text every now and then asking if they could get a ride somewhere or if Icould take them to get their nails done or something.
FDH and I were talking about sex during labor because we saw a couple doing that on that new show "One Born Every Minute", and since I'm 38 weeks pregnant we were joking around about doing it in the hospital. Then he told me about BM...
So I'm an educator--I love kids. When I met my DH's son, I liked him too. Recently I have come to the conclusion that I have a problem that my DH has a son with another woman. I often tell my DH that his son is rude--giving me the blank stare when I try to engage him in conversation. Every other weekend my home includes 3 of us instead of 2. People tell us, spend time together before you have children, but guess what folks, we already have a kid! I mourn the fact that I don't have the traditional newlywed experience. Instead, a week after the honeymoon, we had the kid at our house.
So SS13 has an Iphone and an Ipod touch. BM gave him the Ipod and then DH gave him his old Iphone. Each of these came with their own charger that can be used on either one.
I go to plug in my Iphone at night only to discover my charger is missing. I ask DH and he says oh I think SS has it. WTF? I go get it. This continues to happen on and off over the week until it is finally gone every night!
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