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So proud of hubby right now! Couldn't wait

newmom01's picture

My hubby just told me that he called our marraige counselor to meet with him this morning to discuss BM and her new new evil plan of separation (I love how baby momma intials also mean Bowel Movement.. He He He Blum 3 ) anyway I am so proud of him for trying to resolve our issues regarding her....for so long she has controlled my DH by dangling his boys in front of him... and he steps on everybodys feelings to get to them.

OT feeling deflated, used, stressed and like I am hauling the load

bruisedpeach's picture

both me and my so were made redundant, he has been out of work since Jan and I am due to end my job in June but have already got a new job so will be kissing my redundancy goodbye. different story but related as it would have been about 6K we desparately needed.

anyway i have had a migraine for the last 3 days, i know that i am irritable but i am getting to the end my tether with SO.

He has been jobhunting, not as much as he can but hes been on a few interviews.
other than that he has been at home, half assing the housework and letting things pile up.

How many DHs feel this way? or have done it this way?

stepmom31's picture

So during a discussion, DH says that he is just biding his time until the kids turn 18. As soon as his legal obligation to pay CS to BM for the kids, he wants to send her a "Have a nice day and F*** off!" card, and has zero intention of speaking to her unless totally necessary. He says the kids should be old enough by then to communicate directly with him, and if they choose to have nothing to do with him because of the need to choose their mom's side, then he is fine with that.

Enjoying the peace and reaping the rewards of Ex-wife's plan

newmom01's picture

Well most of you know that I am new here, but I posted a blog yesterday....I have a one year old and my C-section is next week! My DH ex wife decided to not allow thier 2 sons to come over anymore for a while...Ok this made me upset because I felt she was trying to separate me and my husband by only allowing him to visit the kids anywhere besides our home, and I told my husband he just wont be able to see them because we are a family and if she has concerns she is more than welcome to sit down with us and have a talk. But she declines....So guess what!

And...it happens....

wriggsy's picture

Here we are...2 six weeks until the end of the school year. DH has said all school year that he would not pay for SD to attend summer school again this year (he just paid for her to go to summer school last summer). But, he found a way to pay for it in a round about way. Yesterday, he informed me that he told SD that she would pay for summer school herself. How? Her savings account. Her savings account that only he and his parents deposit money into. Her savings account that she doesn't have access to and never thinks of and therefore, doesn't seem real to her.

So the BM sent DH a picture on his phone..

corgimom's picture

Claiming that SD5 wanted a picture of her. Her hair and make-up were done and she was angling the camera so you couldn't see any of her fat parts. Smh.. your daughter, who calls you by your first name to everyone but you (and half the time to you too), does NOT want a picture of you trying to look slutty. Dumb.

BM just topped everything!!

Dudes Mom's picture

So Ss and sd have been sataying with dh since sd was 6months and ss was5.
BM has never paid anything towards them, not once, no CS. DH never went to court to get anything from her.
Well, this weekend SS24 is moving to his BM, guessed what the cow did last night.
She phoned DH to ask if he will help to pay towards SS, cause she will have to buy more of everything now, and she doenst see how she will get through a month now.

*THANK YOU*

mommy_of_4's picture

I just wanted to say thank you to all of you who have come on here and openly shared your own "wonderful" experinces. I have lived 6 years with all these feelings and emotions boiling up inside. Feeling so alone and so horrible for having such awful thoughts and feelings about my skids. Being on here and being able to express my TRUE feelings is just so incredibly invigorating. I feel like this heavy burden has been lifted. So once again THANK YOU Smile

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