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Kerrid04's picture

I am so frustrated with this whole thing I don't even know where to start. Just a briefing to start I am a SM/BM my SD will be 7 next month, BD is 2 and i am expecting in November. My DH has full custody of SD and she lives with us since school ended before that she lives with M.I.L and we fought in court for her the whole 3 years total she was there. We also had visits the whole time she was living with MIL.

SD7 tells Dh last night that she doesn't want to come to visit, BM told her she didn' t have to.

Gigi82's picture

My DH has been fighting for several years to be a part of his DD7's life since his divorce with her mom. 5 years he has had to deal with false allegations, his daughter being withheld from him, and harassment from her family towards him and even me since I entered the picture 4 years ago. Now he has finally gotten his psycho BM to agree to a custody schedule that involves eow and 5 weeks in the summer. They agreed on this two months ago, but she has yet to sign the paperwork. Now we are worried that SD7 will not be up to our state this summer, once again.

Skids leaving Friday for the month of July! But, who knows how long it will last.

Justwantsomepeace's picture

Skids leave Friday to spend July with BM for the first time ever. They haven't spent more than a week with her since the divorce over 5 years ago. Every other time they've spent a week with her she has melted down the next time they saw her because she can't handle the pressure.

Too funny

sweetthing's picture

So this week my daycare provider is on vacation so I am paying my two SS's 13 & 11 to watch their brother. We are on day three & it has been going great. I have had to do a bit of picking up when I get home, but other than that the place is pretty clean. BS almost 4 is loving it, he likes not having to leave the house and having his brothers there with him.

Can he back out?!!

Willow2010's picture

Only 5 more days until SS comes back. UGH!!!! He has been gone almost a whole week!! This is the first time, in over a year and a half, that he has been gone more than a day or two here and there. IT HAS BEEN HEAVEN!!!!

Just wanted to get that out there and make you all jealous! Lol, sorry.

One problem disappears and another one pops up.

winnie's picture

The ex-wife has finally stopped all contact with all of us. We had to go the legal route to do this. But now, SS has his mother's family coming after him now instead. They did this once before, bullying him on Facebook. SS had to cancel his Facebook that time. Now, they are sending him emails asking him to forgive his mother, that she is not feeling well. This entire family is SICK! They are all psychos. For this fourth of july, we are going to SS's apartment again. It has been a while since we have seen him and the baby.

Just needing to get this out!

Bianca29's picture

So things have been going really well with SD(7) being picked up from her mom after school. She seems to be acting normal lately, ever since DH refused to listen to her going off about me anymore. She's nothing but a bully and as soon as he refused to hear it anymore, she stopped. I was under the impression that DH was going to talk to her sometime soon about watching her during the day for the summer. I wasn't really saying anything about it because DH should be able to handle this all on his own. I've also started babysitting a little 2 year old to make a bit of extra money.

Stepdaughter is a dummy

frustratedstepdad's picture

So last night, I found out that about a month ago she was in somebody's car smoking weed when the car was pulled over for a busted headlight. The guy driving the car begged her to tell the cop it was her weed because he was afraid of losing some scholarship at school. So my dumb ass SD told the cop it was all hers. Now she is finding out that there is a $1000 fine and even if you just pay the fine, they still take away your license. The guy who she took the rap for was supposed to give her the money for the fine, but he up and moved to another state.

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