Why does she even call if she doesn't have anything to say? She's called twice this morning already. I didn't pick up the phone, and she didn't leave a message. We've received no emails from her either. Why even call? She obviously didn't have anything important to say or she would have left a message or sent it through email.

Well I'm sorry to say that I am here on Friday night at 9:52PM typing my very sad story because the f#$%$%$$ BM pulled her shit again! It's just unbelievable, and the worst thing is that I just knew it was freakin' gonna happen this way.

Well I want to thank you for your comments and kind words of encouragement. I have tried to get him to go away with me for a weekend and he refuses, he says it won't help anyway. I talked with my husband tonight and asked him "what are we doing?" I miss him terribly and love him so much and he stated tonight that he wants a divorce. Such a blow. I wish he would go to counseling or something but no, he said he doesn't believe in counseling and said he just doesn't care anymore.

Is there a site available to vent about divorce or separation issues, similiar to this one? Thanks

"We are expecting our second child together in late spring/ early summer. We have explained this to Jacob. We wanted to let you know so that if he has any questions we can all be prepared to make the transition as smooth as possible."

How does this sound any suggestions?

Tonight we go to pick up the kids i dread the drive because we never get home till late.I am already feeling sick to my stomach just to think of having to pull up in front of her house.I am not a hateful person but i hate her.My husband will not talk about his past to me because he says i am always trying to compare does anyone else do this?We are trying to have our own child but no luck this past year i am going to be going to a fertility clinic but it saddens me that he had 2 kids with her and we are having such a hard time.Sometimes i think that he doesnt care because he already has 2 ki

I was thinking about Happy and her dilemma and it made me think of an article I read a while ago. It gave me a new perspective on my marriage so I searched for it. It appeared on Christianity Today. Here is the link:

http://www.christianitytoday.com/mp/2005/003/7.32.html

The author is Becky Zerbe and below is an excerpt from her article. It is a MUST READ when you have the time!

The List That Saved My Marriage

I am new so please bare with me.My husband and i were married in july of this year he is a quiet very gentle person my issue is my sd has lived with us for the past two years and this year she decided to go live with her mother which is fine with us its where she will be happy.Her mother and i have not got along since the beginning she has called our house screaming at me so loud the kids can hear everything.I also have a ss and a bio son.She has told my son to his face that i am a s### and has been rude to him when she has called.We cant change our number because the other children call th

MEN are soooo special! Okay so i’ve gotta get this off my chest! I’m a PLANNER and I like things ORGANIZED…so sue me! Well SD5 will be turning 6 tomorrow. We are having a themed birthday party at out house. American Idol….the kids will dress up and “perform” and the adults will “judge” my husband has a mini-studio in his office in our basement so he will actually play tracts for them to sing to and then put their recording on a CD for them to take home after the party. I’m excited and I know it will be fun!

I just recieved this e-mail from a freind and it touches on a few "topics" that have been discussed here recently....

...just thought I'd share...

Something not to laugh about