School sent mail to our house addressed to BM
DH, of course, says no big deal.
Any yes, in the large scheme of our lives it not a big deal, but it really annoys me.
Some ding bat at the school thinks all mail must be sent to GUBM. Even though DH has full custody. Even though the address for BM (that the school has) literally goes to a different city. Even though BM has not once been involved with this school. She couldn't tell you were it was if her life depended on it. But mail from the school that should be addressed to SS's father gets addressed to BM.
And not only that but we shouldn't even be opening mail addressed to BM. If we didn't, we would have no idea what information they were trying to pass on to us.
AND I DON'T want to open my mail box and see mail addressed to BM!
But whatever no big deal.
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Pop it back in the mail
Pop it back in the mail "return to sender."
Or toss it }:)
carefully open it, read it
carefully open it, read it and then RTS it with a note saying....
this bitch is not living at this address wake up idiots
Why are the morons at the
Why are the morons at the school still sending stuff in BM's name to your address?? Your DH needs to get on the phone with them and get it fixed. It is illegal to open mail addressed to someone else. Send it back with "Return to Sender" and "No Forwarding Address", "Forwarding Address Expired", or "No Such Addressee".
I would contact the school
I would contact the school and tell them that all mail sent to your home must be addressed to DH or it will have to be returned unopened.
Last week I got mail from BD9's school addressed to my ex-husband. I'm listed on every form as the primary caregiver, and my ex has never lived in my house, or even in my town. Prior to this, everything has been addressed to me. Zero clue how that happened.
Exactly, I know that my skids
Exactly, I know that my skids aren't the only kids in the school with divorced parents. There have got to be other fathers that have full custody or at least joint.
Ughhh I feel your
Ughhh I feel your frustration!
I moved into the house that DH and BM lived in together at first, and we'd get her name on mail all the time. I hated it, but obviously it was an address she held for a LONG time so it was to be expected.
Once we moved into our own home, it was honestly one of the things I was most excited about, that she would have NO connection with our new address. But alas, she decided to order something for SD13 and have it go to her own (BM's) name instead of putting SD13's name on it.
Also DH does all doctors appointments for skids, but BM has a toddler with her boyfriend that goes to the same doctor. They seem to not be able to keep the responsible parent for each child straight because we've gotten mail from them addressed to BM (and opened it thinking it was about one of the skids) and it turned out to be for her toddler.
I just noticed the school
I just noticed the school portal has "Family of moving_on_again" at the top the other day when SS is the only one that goes to that district. I have never been listed as an emergency contact on there or anything, ever.
The school secretary dislikes me, probably because I have pointed out her numerous mistakes several times in dealing with the fact that the skids have parents that are divorced. Or it could be because she is a divorced BM, who knows. I am not going to point out this mistake, I'll just let BM see it and flip out.
I always hated it when Chef
I always hated it when Chef would say "no big deal."
"Oh, the Girhippo fraudently put me on the NYS Child Abuse and Maltreatment Registry and saw to it that we received no report or refutation paperwork? No big deal."
Yes it IS a big deal, Chef!
--return to sender--address unknown!