Well I’m back after two years and it’s not good.
Well I'm here again after two peaceful years lol. To give a brief summary my SS came to live with us two years ago because things were getting to hard for my SS at his mommy's house. That didn't last long though he complained we had too many rules and cried and begged his mom to come home but we made him finish out school first. He also was caught smoking weed in our basement with his friend and looking at porn. So we sent him on his merry way. Now currently today he's begging to come live with us again. His mother has now said she can't handle him anymore and he cannot get his GED there which is a flat out lie. He has failed 10th grade twice now and he is nearing 18 next year. He's way more concerned with having sex and smoking weed. He also has threatened suicide and was placed in a facility for a couple days. I am currently homeschooling my other children and I am very uncomfortable with the thought of him being here and me being responsible for all that mess. He's on meds and has to be reminded daily, he has no life skills and he also runs away. I don't trust leaving him alone with my other kids or even by himself. Am I wrong for not wanting him in my home? We have talked about putting him in military school in January but I told my husband he cannot live with us until after he completes the program. Is that a smart thing to do? My husband makes me feel guilty for saying no but I've told him I'm just not comfortable taking on an almost adult man child. I have to younger ones to worry about and I deal with medical issues too. Please any advice would be greatly appreciated.