Money? How much is too much?
We are roughly $4000 ahead in child support. We set up our payments for every two weeks and didn’t realize we added a little extra each month. Which added an extra payment a year & $1500 a year.
When we realized it we didn’t change anything or even bring it to his ex wife’s attention.
My struggle now is there are 2 girls; we pay 1/2 of everything they do. Even if we were not consulted. Last year it was $3000 band trip. This year another trip. They are 15 & 17 and contribute zero to any of these trips.
My husband and I own a business together and he stays home to work it but I have to travel 1200 miles every other week for my job to help supplement; our money is together.
How much is enough? I’m tired of handing over money for luxury trips to two ungrateful kids who have done nothing to help themselves. Neither said thank you for the last trip and actually got mad when we wouldn’t fly them out again in 3 months!
How do you handle all of the extra’s? I’m not talking about neccessities, but band trips to CA, etc,