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Question for Step dads.

Nothemom's picture

Are there any Stepdads out there that think the BM is out of line on things? Or is it only the Stepmom's that see the behavior as crazy?

Just wondering if any Stepdads tell the BM to back off of the biodad life/time/etc.

speakeasy's picture

My wife gets very frustrated with biodad's bullcrap and tries to go off on him. I have explained multiple times that she and we need to be firm but considerate and that going off on him does nothing to help ease the tension. He is a complete jerk even after 2 years, but we treat him with respect, we listen to him and we do what's best for the kids even though he never does that himself. I don't know if this is the type of backing off of biodad that you're thinking of...