POLL: I wonder how many of your DH were LEFT BY BM
After reading another members blog about SD and if only having one child made DH more permissive..
I began thinking. How many of your DH were LEFT by BM..
My DH has a very troubled history with women.
My Dh mother left him when he was 8 years old, just up and moved to Florida and didnt tell him or his sibling she was leaving, the older siblings took care of him until social services found out and placed him with wonderful foster parents, where he remained until he graduated high school.
The first real girlfriend he had, they dated for 3 years in high school, broke up with him because he didnt want to be a preacher. So she left him for a man who did.
The second girlfriend he had broke up with him and began dating his brother, and eventually married and divorced that brother.
The first wife he had, he caught in bed with a woman, and he left her. They had no children together.
Then he met BM at work, was in process of getting divorced from 1st wife and he shared his story with BM. They went out a few times, split up, then wha la she calls and is pregnant. So he marries her.. When SD was a baby, a few months but I am not exactly sure of the age, BM left DH for a woman..
(If you are keeping track, yes thats two wives who left for women)..
Then he began dating the x girlfriend. She has told me she had MANY issues with SD and that most of them were the result of DH lack of parenting.
So I wonder, how many of you have a DH with a rocky past with women. Especially those of you with step daughters..
Could it be that DH is afraid to hurt the only female in his life that CANT leave him, so he wont parent her and will never see wrong in her just so she is the one female who will always be in his life???
This could explain alot I think..I am very interested to see what your DH's history are..