Discipline LectureFrom BM Dad
So I am so fed up with EVERYTHING that involves the skids, BM and her parents' bull crap! Skids went to their moms for her weekend. I get a text from their BM saying "what's up with the spanking bulls**t?" I was like what the hck you mean? She said the youngest DD told her her daddy beat on her. I was like are you freaking SERIOUS!? For ONE heir Dad hasn't been even home to beat her he has been out of town on work! Yes, I swat her butt when she pealed paint off her bedroom wall when I JUST got done painting it! Then she goes alright. Sat afternoon she text me again saying "Just letting you know, my dad told me to let you know that he saw bruises and he is NOT happy. No more spankings from now on. You either put them in the corner or bedroom or take a toy away!"
So now not only are they blaming us for beating on them, youngest daughter is lying because she don't get away with crap like she doe ls at grandpas and the bruises she got from NORMAL outside play... is because we BEAT them!
I'm so pissed! Yes I believe in a swat now and again as a last resort when the corner, talking, extra don't get their attention. But it wouldn't even come CLOSE to making a bruise! They play outside ALL day. Fuss and fight, push each other down... THATS where they get a bruise! And the skids are such cons just like their BM and grandparents that they know if they give them a line of bullshit, they can just stay with their bm and be little lying bums who sit around and eat candy and watch cartoons all day.
I'm so sick of this! I wanted to call up big bad grandpa and say "well if you think we are such horable parents then YOU take them!" But I didn't because now we are in a tight situation because BMs dad hates us, skids lie their asses off, and skid has a bruise.
I'm so mad. What now??