Please tell me disengagement gets easier with time...
DH and I overall have a great marriage - except where SD22 is concerned (as it seems is an unfortunate common thread amongst many of us SP). I think our marriage is continuing to improve and strengthen since I've become disengaged from SD22. However, I am having a difficult time with him not sharing this part of his life with me. I should probably count myself lucky, but it bothers me that he chooses not to mention when he has talked to SD22. I know it's silly, (and possibly controlling on my end) but I would still like to know when he talks to her, what is discussed, etc. Typing this out is helping me realize that that is the opposite of what I am ultimately desiring... but it still hurts and makes me feel somewhat rejected.
Any tips on how to make the process of disengagement easier? Or does it simply take time and discipline?