So...here it is Friday and I'm dreading the week-end. "Queenie" as I lovingly refer to her, has FINALLY been court ordered out of the marital residence. We've been paying the mortgage on the castle, all utilities and right down to the kid mowing the grass for the last 2 years. The final decree (which took over 2 years) from the magistrate just got handed down and of course she appealed everything. (go figure) Anyway, everything in the house was ordered to be split 50/50. To date, he has taken a recliner from there (when he moved out) and that is it. Keep in mind, this is a 5,500 sq.ft., $700,000.00 house; and last night, he comes home with 3 of his 4 autographed, framed jerseys that he left behind. I asked where #4 was and he said that she had already "given" it to her son (from previous marriage)and so he wasn't going to bother with it. I asked him what else did he get and he replied, "Nothing." "Nothing?" I asked. "14 years together and you got nothing else out of the house? You walked away with a recliner and 3 jerseys in broken frames?" His response? "She said she's leaving the pool table as well." O.k....Did I just miss something? He said he's not asking for anything because he just wants her out.I seriously want to take my hands and wring his ignorant neck. I for one, don't think she'll be out by Sunday. We gave the moron a check for 5 grand in court on Monday and she called him yesterday to say she can't move this week-end because she's broke and can't afford movers. He asked if I thought we should give her some more money? "Um no." would be the answer to that....So anyway, I'm ticked off right now and I'm annoyed with myself for it. I'm mad that he's being a wimp and falling for her b.s.....The woman makes 75k a year at her job. She HAS the money. Then there's the fact that we all know she won't do a top notch job cleaning. I believe it will be the extreme opposite and the house will be destroyed. Yours truly will be left to clean the crap up. Once again. Me with her left-overs. I'm convinced he'll give her money without me knowing and I'm convinced she still won't be out. He says it's because of my hatred for her. I call a spade a spade and I know her M.O.; it hasn't changed since I met her. I, on the other hand, HAVE changed. I'm resentful, I think mean thoughts and I feel deep hatred for this witch that is interferring with my life on a daily basis.....
Tell me it will get better....