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When even your kids know you're a hoe.

Chachi's picture

Ok, this is petty and mean, but I just HAVE to laugh about it somewhere.
So SS12 gets dropped off by BM, and is angry because she broke yet another promise of doing something with him. Nothing new.
BM calls not long after, in tears, because apparently SS12 stormed off after telling her to "go suck some d*%k on the corner". :jawdrop:
So of course, we have to go give him a stern talking to about respect and inappropriate language, and take away his electronics for the night.
It's really hard, because on the one hand, I don't ever want him to grow up to be the kind of man who would say that to any woman. But at the same time, hey, sometimes you need to call a spade a spade.
SD16 then comes to tell us how disappointed she is in BM, and how BM is regaling her with tales, in *graphic* detail, about all the sex she's having in the backseat of her car around town. Including positions, penis size, you name it.
Seriously, just WHAT?! What the hell kind of subhuman talks to their CHILD about their sexual exploits, true or untrue? That is some trash I can't even comprehend.
She's still telling them both the same old, "I'm getting a house so I can get you back" story. Get them back, lol, they were never taken from her. She left! Besides the point that neither *wants* to go live with her in whatever shack she thinks she's going to obtain. They're both done, thank God.
I'm sad for them, but honestly, it's good they see the truth. She can cry a river, I don't give a crap. When you abandon your children to go screw a married man and take care of HIS kids, chances are yours will lose the little remaining respect they had for you. And when he throws you out, and you proceed to make yourself the town bicycle? Yeah, great example you're setting there.
Sheesh.

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Tuff Noogies's picture

lol! i'd commented earlier on another blog about kids realizing what their mom is. dumbass would leave her husband's side, take the kids, and go shack up w/ her boyfriend for a while. her and hubby split, she took the kids and moved in w/ the boyfriend - she'd then leave bf and go hang w/ "stb" ex.

oss once said "the dumb ho needs to just pick one!!" he was about 12...
(oh and ps, she's still married to hubby, split from bf, possibly living w/ new bf, and and keeps all three 'close' at all times).

it is really sick tho' sharing those details with your own kid. i dont care if your kid is 60, that's just GROSS.

robin333's picture

Doesn't everyone discuss their sexual exploits with graphic details with their teenage daughter? My DD and I like to discuss penis sizes while watching porn together. Nothing like a little mother/daughter time. Your BM sounds like a classy lady. (I'm being dsarcastic.)

Chachi's picture

YES. My thinking exactly. SS's not mature enough yet to understand how prostitution victimizes women. And she's trying to twist his brain in every way to make her situation someone else's fault.
In reality, she is a victim. She's mentally ill (diagnosed) but is refusing treatment. because suddenly, she's too good for drugs, because JESUS. (LOL, except every pill that's made, coke, booze, etc.).
Add to that the paranoia that comes along with using. Essentially, her life is coming undone, and she's self-medicating to cope.
I'm a foster care worker, and it's REALLY hard for me to separate this from my day to day. I'm constantly biting my tongue.
As much as I despise her on a personal level...the woman needs help. For these kids, and for DH's sanity.
I'm posting another entry about what happened tonight.

Chachi's picture

Thanks everyone. Yeah, she's a real class act.
It just goes in the overflowing file of absolute INSANITY, in the unlikely event that she ever tries to obtain custody.
At this point, I think even she recognizes that discipline is 100% our department. Proper behavior and consequences aren't exactly BM's forte. Besides the point that she rarely sees either of them, and provides them with nothing. Not much leverage there, lol.

Tuff Noogies's picture

:sick: :sick: :sick: :sick: :sick: :sick: :sick:

FieryEscape's picture

WOW....MOTY year right there...how low rent can ya get ....

My daughter is 18 and it's uncomfortable to even watch a tv sex scene with her lol

Chachi's picture

Probably the kicker to this, SD16 is questioning if she's a lesbian right now. Has a gf, etc.
When she told BM this, she threw a hissy fit, saying she was disappointed, and it was "wrong", because JESUS.
Yeah, I'm sure Jesus was a huge fan of adultery and fornication, you hypocritical garbage heap. So effing typical.

Maxwell09's picture

Maybe BM sharing her sexual conquest is her disgusting attempt to change her daughter's mind about wanting men instead of women. The best thing your DH could do for that girl is talk to her about safe sex (birth control for boys & disease prevention for all types) and a long talk about how sex is best when you care for the other person...and not sneaking around hiding it in the backseat at thirty. Geez.

Chachi's picture

You're right, she likely is. It's just the objection!
We've talked with SD extensively about safe sex, gay or not. The thing is, BM could care less if SD had unprotected sex with guys. She's encouraging her!!! :sick:
But having sex with girls - which she's not, bc we don't allow any combo of bf/gf/gf/gf/bf/bf to sleep with the other unsupervised) she's suddenly having an objection to.

Chachi's picture

You're right, she likely is. It's just the objection!
We've talked with SD extensively about safe sex, gay or not. The thing is, BM could care less if SD had unprotected sex with guys. She's encouraging her!!! :sick:
But having sex with girls - which she's not, bc we don't allow any combo of bf/gf/gf/gf/bf/bf to sleep with the other unsupervised) she's suddenly having an objection to.

Chachi's picture

You're right, she likely is. It's just the objection!
We've talked with SD extensively about safe sex, gay or not. The thing is, BM could care less if SD had unprotected sex with guys. She's encouraging her!!! :sick:
But having sex with girls - which she's not, bc we don't allow any combo of bf/gf/gf/gf/bf/bf to sleep with the other unsupervised) she's suddenly having an objection to.

SugarSpice's picture

very poor role model. in my case bm screwed a married man. he divorced his wife go marry bm. thankfully karma truck ran over bm. after twenty years of marriage her husband cheated on bm with another woman. as adults the skids now understand the whole story and what their mother did to their father.