DH has no spine with BM, SD or Mother
How can after 6 years of marriage I am now ready for a divorce. In the past 2 years DH has no spine to comfront issues that have directly affected our marriage caused by SD. SD uses him by only coming to house twice a year for Xmas and B-day. Basically when there is something in it for her. She tell DH family lies about him and I onlyh to be caught and not made to apologize to me much less DH co-parenting with BM. His mother continues to have dinners at BM house. She joins in on conversations with BM as to how BM needs more child support since she know DH is making more money. What BM fails to remember is when DH was out of work for a year she got her full amount of CS even though his unemployment checks where 50% less than what he was making. Bad decision on my part.
I love DH but I hate him for not being a "father" to his daughter, not standing up to his ex nor his mother. He knows how I feel and we have discussed these issues numerous of times. His reponse: "I will fix it".
My adult children treat him with the up most respect and are now making comments to me as why he chooses to "run and hide".
Any suggestion or help is truly appreciated.