8 year old still sleeps with us
Hi everyone! New here!
I have been with my SO for four years and we just moved into a place together last January.
his son 8 lives with us 50% of the time
at first he couldn't sleep alone without waking up screaming so my SO slept in his room. After countless fights he now sleeps in our bed.
recently he has been wanting to stay in his own room alone but at least once a week sleeps in our bed again. Am I wrong for being fed up? When he is in our bed my SO cuddles him all night and it's just another time I feel left out. I feel like I get no affection especially if he is in our bed. But if I say he should sleep in his own room because he is old enough I'm a bed girlfriend? I have so much anxiety around bed time most nights I can't even sleep. Any suggestions? I allow him in our bed because I also hate sleeping alone so I don't want my SO sleeping in his room. PLEASE HELP!